Hey all.
Wonderful losses this week it seems! Hooray to all who have lost.
I have something to say about flex points and I hope no one thinks I'm overstepping bounds here.
It drives me nuts to have people upset that they've used their flexies. The whole
POINT (if you'll forgive the pun) is that they are meant to be used. They are there for a purpose. If you get into the mindset that they are bad, you'll eventually have a problem as you go down in target points since they're there to bolster you.
Think of how "naturally" thin people eat. They may have a day or two where they eat everything in the house and then the rest of the week they just graze on bits n pieces here and there. This is the same concept as flex points but in a reality situation.
If you think you're eating too many flex points, take a look at your journal and see just WHERE you're using them. Are you using them mindlessly? I mean, are you going out to eat, grabbing a double whopper with extra cheese and mayo and then thinking "oh boy, I just used my flex points"? or are you using them to supplement your regular eating? Or for celebrations or to hit your favorite restaurant once a week or so?
If it's the latter then you have flexies down pat! This is what they're there for, their whole
raison d'être if you will.
But if you're not using them mindfully, with purpose, then stop. Look at your journal. See where you're using them and then modify that behavior.
But the thing to take away from this is:
Flexies are your friends. They are there for you when you need a point or two to have an extra slice of your mom's delish meatloaf. Or when your best friend is having a birthday celebration and you want a piece of cake AND a cosmopolitan. Or even just when you know Aunt Flo is going to make her monthly visit with cousin TOM and you must HAVE THAT DANG CHOCOLATE BAR DAMN THE TORPEDOS FULL STEAM AHEAD! Flexies are good. Eating your flexies can actually AID in weight loss. It's true. Remember, your body needs fuel to work.
Anyway, it's just my $.02 and observations from being OP for 80 bazillion years.
Huggles n stuff!
Kae