Hi Marie and Terapet, and welcome to the thread, Gayle!
I'm so sorry I've been MIA...days get crazy, and tell myself I'll hop on 3FC when I finish work...and then when 4:30 a.m. rolls around (5 of those nights in a row unfortunately!) and I'm finally done, all I hear is my pillow calling and tell myself I'll do it tomorrow...and we can see where that gets me. :-) Know that I'm thinking of you all and have good intentions.
A couple of weeks ago, on my last non-work weekend, I decided to start tackling my desk and made good progress...just 1 pile left and I can see wood grain on most of it now. Woohoo! I may not be losing any weight at the moment, but my desk has!

Of course, then it was back to the grind and I haven't gotten any farther, but I'm defending the clean space.
This weekend we're having a family birthday party for my oldest son (just turned 18) and my niece (turned 13 three days before my son), along with my sister-in-law's cousin and her daughter who also have September birthdays. It's about 90 miles from here. I was asked to make the cake (I made my brother's wedding cake years ago and unfortunately they haven't forgotten LOL), so today (Friday) I'll be knee deep in cake and batches of mousse filling and buttercream icing...and royal icing as I attempt lace butterflies (to go with the flowers on half the cake) and music notes (for my son's half of the cake). Talk about sugar overload - I think I'll gain weight just from skin absorption as I decorate! In over my head? Probably. LOL
Gayle, I feel for you with the RA diagnosis. I was diagnosed in Nov 2005 and it was a long 6 weeks or so waiting to be seen and getting a diagnosis, while in constant pain in every joint. I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone...and it has sure kept me faithfully taking the medicine because I don't want to repeat that. I hope they are finding meds that work and that your pain is under control!
Will try to check in on Sunday when the cake is only a memory. :-)