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Originally Posted by Late to the game
Hi ladies,
I have been MIA (not that I posted a lot, but I do read regularly!) I need a swift kick in the butt. Ever since December 21st, when I caved and participated in a potluck at work, I can't find my mojo. I was very sick with bronchitis (my excuse for not exercising), the holidays arrived and I made candy (almond roca, truffles) for the first time and it was just too good not to eat. The new year brought new stresses-the latest? My just turned 20-year old son is going to be a father. Anyway, I have been coming home from my very stressful job and just bundling up in sweats and a blanket. I don't want to work out. I want comfort food (think mashed potatoes with lots of butter and gravy) and wine, lots of wine. Today I actually managed to walk 3 miles with Leslie and do a little upper body strength training. I HATED EVERY MOMENT OF IT. I just can't get back into the groove. Spring will be here (in California anyway) before you know it, and I don't want to be parading my fat thighs. Can any of you offer advice? How do you get over apathy? Sigh...
Hi Giovanna,
There is a great book - of course, right now, I can't think of the title - that explains how our bodies fight us to gain back weight we lose. There is tons of research referenced in the book. The short story is that it is NOT in our minds. There are physical reasons why we have these "dieting lapses."
That being said, I'm in the same place as you. Between illnesses, holidays, stress, I have gained 8 pounds since Thanksgiving. We've just got to "Do It!"
Below are my best 10 ideas to get "back on track"
1) Go find someone on any 3FC Board who is in trouble & give them 10 ideas.
2) Go to
www.dwlz.com & spend some time playing around there.
3) While you are in
www.dwlz.com, download Weight Commander and spend time playing with it.
4) Make yourself a pot of herbal tea, put it in your best teapot and pour yourself several cups while you are on the computer.
5) Find a good meal recipe that is around 400 cals/serving; make it; package the servings in separate baggies; eat one.
6) Think of a good challenge you would like to set for yourself & post it on the 50+ Board. We'll join you in the challenge & it will be a lot easier to do it!
7) Identify 5 things you did today that were good/nice. Write them on an index card and put it on your refrigerator.
8) Go to at least one 3FC Board that you rarely visit & read through 1 page of messages.
9) Think of a goal that you could meet this week. Challenge yourself to do it.
10) Turn off TV, turn on some good music, lie back and spend 10 minutes imagining how you will spend a day after you meet your weight goal - be specific - start with when you wake up in the morning and go through day until bedtime.
Good luck to both of us,
Lynn