Lynn,
Weclome!! Glad you joined us!
I calorie count. Like you, I've tried a lot of different plans. Through 3FC I finally realized that I needed to give up dieting and make some lifestyle changes that I could do for the rest of my life. I'm just too old to have to keep losing the same lbs. over and over and over.
Thus, I started making small changes - portion control and logging everything I ate (Fitday). I then started eating cleaner (whole foods instead of processed ones), and added more protein and more veggies. Slowly, I tweaked the plan until I found what worked for me.
I still make minor tweaks as I go through maintenance - I'm trying to find my maintenance level of calories, for instance.
I think WW is a good plan - it is similar to calorie counting and is something you can do long term.
I recommend that you also add in exercise, it has made a huge difference for me along this journey. Start small - it doesn't have to be over the top - maybe a walk every day? Then add in some strength training. I love to alternate among pilates, yoga, fitness ball, stretchie band & weights. It keeps me from getting bored and has been a wonderful way to build strength and flexibility.
And - whatever you try - don't be afraid to tweak along the way - if something doesn't work, keep adjusting until you find what does.
You CAN do this!!!
I look forward to getting to know you

And - congrats on the 4lb loss so far