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Old 01-10-2005, 08:32 PM   #16  
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Old 01-10-2005, 09:10 PM   #17  
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Leanne - You've got to take care of you so don't make it worse by feeling bad! You'll be in my prayers. Get well soon!
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Old 01-10-2005, 09:37 PM   #18  
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Hello Ladies,

This will be my last post in this forum. I was sick as a dog last week and only one person ever said they hoped I felt better. I don't feel supported here, in fact, this forum has begun to feel very "cliquey" to me and I am not comfortable with it. I feel like an outsider and that is not what support is all about. The "air" in here feels tense to me and I feel very ignored even when I do post. I am also aware that there have been lots of pm's about certain things and I for one am mortified to hear about what's being discussed. Rather than worry that I might be the subject of people's pm's, I feel I need to leave. Therefore, I am off to join some friends in a new forum.

I wish you all well in your weight loss journeys and your lives.

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Oh Chris! I don't think anyone is purposely ignoring you or anything

A lot of us just come in and do "fly bys" and I think often we don't even realize we've missed a post.. these threads do fill up quickly. There are times when my posts go by without an ounce of acknowledgement, you cant let it get to you! I know I can only speak for myself, but though lately I've been doing more of "ask a question, look for answer, and reply to answer" type posts lately, I think of each and every one of you and read what each and every person says.

Life has been so hectic lately for a lot of us I think we just grab and pick whatever posts randomly.

I'm sorry I missed your post and didn't wish you well. I hope you don't leave, but if you still feel that I wish you the best of luck on your journey as well

and whats this about bad PMs? :confused:
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Hi Ladies! Well, we're in a new year now... Haven't had the greatest start at work, it's been pretty bad there and doesn't seem to be getting better at all! Trying to go in with a positive attitude but it doesn't seem to last long at all and it's really starting to SUCK. Hubby's having a hard time finding a decent paying job since getting out of the Army and that isn't helping the bills or the stress or anything else, but we're squeaking by, but some of the bills are getting grumpy and they'll just have to be while we get by paying what we HAVE to pay to survive and live and the others can wait to get caught up. I'm hoping this year will get better. I have a referral bonus coming up next month so that should catch up a few things we've been needing to, thank God for that!

Still going to Curves. Didn't do too great the last month going there with their crazy hours and the holidays and I didn't cheat horribly, but I did cheat here and there with the Xmas goodies, but I didn't go overboard and stuff myself sick, I'm proud to say. The water isn't up as well in the ounces but it is still the only beverage I have all day long, minus a glass of tea and a glass of juice. My friend and I are quitting the eating out at lunch and we'll be bringing it in 4x a week and eating out once starting tomorrow. I'll be able to control things SOooo much better that way.

She and I have been paying for a home study course to get our associate's in nursing for the past two years and have done a really crappy job of doing it. Well even worse than crappy considering we've studied here and there and haven't bothered to test on one class, but our goal is to take our lunch and we can afford to take one test every month to every 6 weeks. So maybe this time in 18 months we can be done with RN school and I can graduate a much thinner, happier woman! Goals, goals... if hubby gets a decent paying job, I can take a job that pays a little bit less with better hours so that I can devote better time to studying. That's one of my biggest goals behind weight loss and healthing it up. When the kiddo is grown and out of the house, I want to work overseas with the red cross or FEMA doing nursing to the less fortunate. That way I won't feel guilty being gone a month or two at a time. Anyway... I'm rambling!! Pardon, but I haven't posted in a couple of weeks, but hopefully I'm back for awhile!! Missed you all!

SusieH-- Make me the next # on your Clubmom referral! I used to be a member a couple of years ago when they first opened the website, but I reregistered with our new email. Lane Bryant RULES!! I love their clothes and they fit great too. I also like Avenue for plus sized clothes too. They just feel so much better. The only problem is the underwires, which I don't think is any different from any others--the wire tends to come out sometimes. But they fit great even without it! And your son Andrew had a party Sat? My daughter Mikhayla just turned nine and we had her party that day too.

Kari-- I feel for you and your impacted teeth! Mouth problems are the worst... I have a partially hollowed out tooth with a temporary filling that I chickened out on getting the root canal done on last summer... I know it's only no amount of time before it starts bothering me and I have to get it pulled... Ugh.


To the Telling Your Spouse How Much You Weigh that's going around-- I swore when I met my husband he'd never know... well, we were in military and it's smack dab on the back of your ID, which I lied on, since we're all being honest here, but one day I just told him... he pressured me a little about it, that we're supposed to tell each other everything, etc, BS that we all use on our husbands to get the truth ... I didn't tell him the exact # but he knows it's 300+, and it doesn't bother him at all. I was this size when we met, so he fell in love with ME, not a skinny version of me... though he's seen photos of me a thin little hottie at 17. He treats me like the most beautiful woman in the world and says he will no matter how skinny I get...

BarbG-- I haven't disappeared off the face of the earth... Work has just been HADES here lately, and I don't get to stop in like I used to... my nights at work have gotten longer, so I miss a little more online time at home. I miss it and all of you! But sometimes life just gets in the way, doesn't it?

CD-- I know that this is probably too late to respond to, but I'm catching up on old posts because I'm so behind! The person that you decide to first have sex with or any person after knows what size you are. It doesn't matter to him right now what size you are. He obviously cares for you regardless of your size now and if you both care enough about each other, taking it slow and learning about each other's bodies slowly and not jumping in head-first, then you'll be that much more comfortable with him the first time you have sex with him. The first time is full of all of those feelings no matter WHAT size you are, worrying and wondering if he will be accepting of who you are and what your body looks like. Take it slow, CD, and don't do any more than you are comfortable doing at one time with this young man. The more time you spend getting to that point and taking it all nice and slow, the more comfortable and relaxed you'll feel when the time comes. I hope that helps some!
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Hi Gals -
Just wanted to pop in and say g'night. I am enjoying some time in my special room with my candles and music before I crawl into bed. It's still rough around here - Jeff took another day off work - he is just miserable and uncomfortable - I won't go into gory details. I am feeling completely overwhelmed by my emotions. I am on the pill - yes, the pill in order to get pregnant! Don't ask It's a part of the crazy process! Anyway, it makes me feel horrible. I remember this feeling years ago when I was actually on it to prevent pregnancy --- gosh - what were we ever thinking!!!????!!!!?

Anywho....tonight I got home from work and FORCED - yes, it took every ounce of energy in my body to get on the exercise bike. But, I did it! Didn't feel much better afterwards, but felt slightly accomplished!

Chris - I am sorry if your feelings were hurt and I wish you nothing but the best! I know I have been in a somewhat selfish place lately, but I am doing the best to get through each day. Somedays it's all I can do to put on a happy face. I use to be wonderful with personals and always tried to acknowledge everyone, but lately I just don't have it in me. Whatever you do and where ever you go, please take care of yourself!!!

Night Everyone! May you all have pleasant and sweet dreams!
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It was totally COLD today, but I did get out to walk and then got in my 30 minutes of strength training when I came back inside after that. I'm trying to stay as active as possible, because my left knee gets stiff and painful if I sit too long (darn arthritis..grrr).

Right now I am catching up on some reading on here and wondering what other people on their fantastic weight loss voyages are up to, as well as gathering some general information. Quite a place to learn, if I may say so.

May you all have a good evening and a GREAT Tuesday....I have to weigh in tomorrow, so cross fingers and toes for me that I at least took off half an ounce
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Old 01-11-2005, 02:05 AM   #23  
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WOW !!! I was here just 24 hours ago and so much has happened.
Some days only one or two posts ... and today I can't keep up.

Chris ... I am sorry you feel negelected. I have often felt those feelings too... BUT ..
I also am guilty of not responding to everyone. I have always tried to ... but truth is... it is HARD to keep up with everyone.
I have taken on the attitude that other people don't mean to ignore me anymore than I mean to ignore them. But it happens.
Plus... I too have been wrapped up in my own problems and did not even read for several days. I am sorry for my part of you feeling ignored. It was not my intention. I hope you change your mind and stay.. but if not ... I hope you find that special group you are seeking.

CD... gee, I feel bad taking so long to get back to you. I encouraged you to share with us .... and then I don't get back here for over a day. I think all of the advice you have recieved is great. I wish life was a true love story. But I think for a lot of people... it is merely sex.

I know several people who had sex simply because they felt left out ...everyone else was doing it.... or they feared it would never happen so when they got a chance to... they did. There was no commitment or love involved. It was merely sex. I am not sitting in judgement of this. It is just a fact. For some ... they wished they had waited for that "special person" ... for others... it was just one more thing to check off their list of "to do".

I know you just broke up with a guy not long ago. I am assuming this is a different guy.
When people break up we often have this "need" to feel wanted. I know I did. I needed to feel wanted by someone/anyone. Anyone to make me feel whole again. I did not fullfill that "need" .. but it was there.
I guess what I want to share is... if you have doubts... wait.

Sex is a wonderful part of life ... but too many young people rush into it. Trust me... it will still be around six months from now. Don't rush into this if you have doubts.
But don't let your size be your doubts. You can have a wonderful , fullfilling sex life at any size... and the guy won't care if you have an extra roll or two.
Your size won't matter... whether it is just for sex or for love. And please please please... protect yourself. Your life is too precious to take any chances. Dr.Phil once said... if you are not ready to discuss protection with your partner... then you are not ready for sex. Gee... there is sooo much more I want to share. but I think I would just ramble.
Hmmm... now I want to delete all of this. Who am I to give advice on such a serious matter.
I pray you will make the right decision for yourself.

There are soooo many others who deserve replies too. But I am emotionally drained tonight. I love all of you. I am not ignoring any of you. Sometimes when a group grows it is soooo hard to keep up with everyone. Please please.. don't take it personal. I used to stay up all night if necessary to not offend anyone... but I gave that up. I just do the best I can and accept that it may not be enough for everyone. I do care about EVERYONE here ... and even those missing too. {{{ HUGS }}}
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2cute - I wanted to reply just to make sure you don't delete that. You have every right as much as anyone else to give advice I thank you for your words. You all have become mentors to me and I appreciate it so much, I know this is a weightloss group but we all know that every aspect of life affects our weight. I did breakup with my boyfriend a month ago - and this is the same guy. Its a lot longer of a story than I can share, but I've been best friends with him for 8 or so years and we are still close even now, just taking our time with the "love" because of things that happened. We definitely discuss protection, oh trust me.. I am nearly the MOST conservative teenager out there - especially since I don't really have a religion.. people are always baffled that I often consider waiting until marriage, I would never do it with anyone I haven't known for a long time (and a long time to me is 3 or more years), and I wouldn't do if I didnt love him.. I've loved him for nearly 6 years.

Again thank you all of you who've given advice. I guess I've just had some communication problems with my mother in the past and don't know how she'd handle this. We sort've come from different worlds (she's not as conservative as I am, and she grew up being thin/beautiful and everything that goes with it..) so she doesn't quite know what its like to be young and be overweight and deal with the more intimate things.

Oi, I feel like i'm stealing away all the threads! Okay! Back to fitness talk!

I'm kinda poor right now so my healthy eating is :thumbsdown: I can't buy new food until next week, and all we have is noodles and rice. Which is healthy to a point, but I don't eat every meal.

I've been doing crunches, going up and down our stairs a bunch for exercise, and some simple wieght lifting. I need to get back into my mode of using my work out videos! Though I'm really enjoying going to the gym every morning to play Raquetball, now I just have to get up the courage to go every morning to use the treadmill


I hope everyone that is ill (or has an loved one who's ill) recovers swiftly, congratulations to everyone who is staying OP, and to those who aren't - pick yourself up, dust off the dirt and try again!

Much love as always.
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Hello everyone! It's been a helluva day! We started this morning with calls to AAA, the towing company and the collision shop. Then it was off to Enterprise for a rental car. Boy do I love days like this.

Luckily, the "baby" only has a sore leg from banging against the console of his car. The telephone pole that he hit, however, has a 10 degree lean to it. Ooops. Guess I never taught him that poles don't "give" that well.

The rest of the day was spent "pulling bank jobs". These are fun ones where I have to collect alot of information. The nice part is there's no paperwork to complete when I get home.

Tomorrow is more bank jobs and lunch with my mom and cousin. I'm hoping to get up and start early, but since it's going on 4 AM, I'm doubting that I will want to get out of bed too early. I'm thinking about crashing in the recliner so Honey doesn't know what time I shut this 'puter off.

Tina: How are you doing since you buried your PawPaw? Been thinking of you, hun. Hope you're doing ok. [[[hugs]]]

Marcie: That's how the University of Michigan is here. The "baby" had UofM selected as one of the colleges he thought he wanted to attend. When we took the tour I fell in love with the campus. He, however, fell in love with the opportunities that Kettering afforded him. His choice was much better for his future and I'm glad he went there even though it was lots of $$$$$. * WOW, Marcie, 5 POUNDS! Good going!!!!

Ocean Girl: WELCOME to our little corner of the world! Glad to have you joining us. *"The worst thing is going shopping and the shop assistants ask "Are you looking for bigger sizes?". Boy, you've got that right! Like, "NO, I'm looking for a gift for my sister!" * Do I detect a little accent? English? Australian? Am I way out of line? I'm sorry your mom isn't supportive. Mine was unsupportive in other ways. For instance, my folks offered me a car as a teen if I lost weight. Then each morning I would wake up to the whole bacon, eggs and toast type breakfast. Mixed messages for sure.

Skittles: Sorry you and hubby are sick. Hope you feel better soon. * I don't exercise in front of Honey, but then again I don't exercise when I'm alone either so I guess I'm not a good one to talk to. We left the "evil machine" up in the dining room (just pushed over to the wall) during the holidays. When one of my friends came in and noticed it, Honey just said "Yup, I dust it about once a month." Unfortuneately, that was true. I hope to change that this year. After all, it's too late to send it back! * I had to laugh at your cat catcher story. I didn't have my kitty in a heat duct, but one of the kid's hamsters went AWOL once and late one night we heard little scratching noises coming from one of the registers. Sure enough the little thing was suck in the furnace right above the heat exchanger. Honey thought he could rescue him by putting a long tube of the "habittrail" down to the little rodent. I thought Honey was nutts! Needless to say, Honey was right. That little bugger shot up that tube like there was no tommorrow!!! He was covered with soot, but he was fine.

Terri: How did your special dinner out go? Did you have a good time? It sounds like you and DH are doing super....staying OP together is always a PLUS! Wish I could get Honey interested. Maybe if I was more dedicated he would be too, ya think?

Chris: I'm sorry I didn't get in here to wish you a speedy recovery. I haven't been doing much by way of posting individual replies for the last couple of weeks. My funk has been pretty all-encompassing. I did get a chance to be here in the wee hours Friday nite/Saturday morning, but I don't think you had posted too recently or I missed it. Anyway, I'm sorry you are feeling left out. Best wishes to you wherever and whatever you do.

Qadera: Coyotes! Oh my! I guess that would get my rear in gear! Weeew! * I loved your terminology "ample self". That's PERFECT! I will have to use that instead of the way I usually refer to myself. * You are doing such a great, consistent job. Your pounds...they too shall pass! How about measuring yourself all over and watching the inches go down until the scale cooperates?

BarbPA: I'm sorry to hear that Jeff isn't doing much better. I'm sure that is very frustrating. Guys don't tend to like to have someone messin' with their "parts" to begin with and then when it doesn't turn out well, it's even worse. I hope he's feeling better real soon.

2Cute: I love the Applebee's coupon story. Sounds like something I would definitely try!

Mary: 7 POUNDS! WooHoo for you! That's marvelous! It's too bad about the other librarian's trailer. Has she been able to salvage anything? That's really sad. *It sounds like you are going to have a very busy Spring. Shower and wedding and.......time alone with DH!!!

Ruby: 4 POUNDS is awsome! Good going!!! "My life is tick tick ticking by and everybody else is out dancing." Well said. That's EXACTLY the way I feel. When Honey and I were in Vegas he said, "why didn't we do this 10 years ago?" Meaning we were in better shape then. Well, we didn't because we weren't in that good a shape 10 years ago either and we were going to go when we lost some weight. Go figure. Many more pounds and much less in shape...that's when we finally go.

Leanne: Oh my gosh, you really are sick heading off to the hospital!!! Sheesh! I sure hope you're doing better real soon. I'm sure you've raised very responsible kids and that they will be fine while you're gone. But I have to say, I know how horrible you feel to have to leave them. Hope it all turns out ok for all of you.

Michelle: Are you packed and ready to go? I did laundry all day yesterday between taking Christmas trees down. Argh! You'd think I could get to the bottom of it sooner or later. I was still doing whites tonight. It seems neverending.

CD: "I've tried to be honest before but I've found that I hate when people get "pushy" about it." I can see your point with this one too. Sometime after I started WW my MIL started it too. For many family get togethers (for years) they would turn to me and say "how many points?" I thought, ya know, figure it out. You go to the meetings too. It just gets old REAL quick. * I actually wrote my two cents worth, but since I've been working on this post since 11:00 PM YESTERDAY, I think you've probably gotten some of the best advice/answers and put far more eloquently than I could have. Don't feel bad about coming here and not going to your mom. That is NOT a discussion I would/did have with MY mom. EVER!!!

Workingitoff: WELCOME ABOARD! We're glad to have you join us. Good job giving up the fast food. That's a real accomplishment! And a bad habit I've fallen back into.

MaryB: I didn't get dressed until 5:00 on Sunday, so I've got you beat. The only place you win, is you got to enjoy your day. I did laundry and Christmas deco. At least I wasn't dressed until we got the accident call. I didn't figure I should go out of the house dressed in a nighty!!! I do have SOME sense. Not much, but some! That's so nice that your daughter has a nice relationship with your grandmother. My grandmothers both passed before I was 10 and my grandfathers were gone long before them.

Barbg: 8 POUNDS! WOW. You go, girl!!! Your hard work is really paying off. * I love your cutie patutie welcome gif. That is soooo NEAT!!! * How's Alvin doing with his shingles? I hope he's feeling some better.

Susie: Sounds like you got "bamboozled"!!! Andrew got you!!! * I found some really pretty bras at Avenue before we went to Vegas. And they DIDN'T have underwires! WooHoo! In order to get the colors I wanted and the sizes, I had to go online, but I got them. And I love those panties. I really didn't think with this ample bottom (see Qadira, I'm learning ) that I would like them, but they are really, really comfortable and they don't ride up.

Kari: Hope by now the mouth is feeling better. I know that you're dedicated to losing weight, but not being able to eat with a sore mouth is a heckuvaway to accomplish that!

Kerri: It sounds like you have a good solid plan for your future. Fingers crossed for something to come along real soon for your hubby. Playing enie, meanie, minie, mo with the bills is NOT fun. Been there, done that!

Anne: Welcome to our little corner of the universe. Tell us about yourself.

Well, my dears, if I can get this post to actually post without losing it I will be one happy camper. If I missed you, I am indeed sorry. I went back to thread #627 in hopes to catch as many as have been here for a couple of days. Hope you have a great TODAY! Love ya bunches!
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well good tuesday all .
i get to go to my ww meeting today , i am figuring on going even though they closed the school here they are calling for 3 to 4 inches of snow and then ice again {i hate Ice } i think i have mentioned that before ? well i am just as glad that they closed school i dont mind going out with my personal car but to take the bus out with 60 kids on it and have to make sure they are safe home and to school in bad weather i just rather not on bad roads the one thing i can say is that i dont worry to much about my driving it is the others out on the road that think that just because they have 4 wheel drive they can go as fast as they want and they dont have to slow down even for ice and i can tell you that 4X4's do not go in ice any better then a front wheel drive being on the roads in bad weather as much as i am i see as many SUVs in the snow bank as front wheel drive cars . Now please dont get me wrong i am not saying that everyone that drives SUVs does this of course there is a good number of people no matter what they drive in bad weather that try to go faster then they should ....
well i had better get off this subject before i get someone upset with me.
does anyone get the hungry girl newsletter they announced yesterday that Nabisco's 100 Calorie Packs there are now TWO new kinds available. Honey Maid Cinnamon Thin Crisps (Graham snacks) and Ritz Snack Mix
i was in wal-mart yesterday looking for the new ones but they do not have them yet around here of course we are always the last to get the new stuff i have been looking for the ww cereal around here and cant find them either. oh well everyone have a good day and drink your water
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Gooood morning all. I got on the scales this morning and weighed the exact same as Saturday...it may be time to start exercising now. *sigh* I am going to dig out my Walk Away the Pounds DVD tonight...hopefully I can find it!!! I will start doing the one mile walk when I get home from work each day. It is only 20 minutes or so, but it is a start!

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It think that is the longest post I have ever seen!!!! I understand about college and $$$$. It took me over 5 years to pay off my student loans...and now I am back in grad school part time and each class is $1500-$2000! Thankfully I only have 3 classes to go!!!
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Chris - I am sorry to see you go. I understand how you must feel. This is a weigh-loss website and folks come here looking for support, ideas, and motivation. And it is very disappointing when you post something and no one makes any response. It feels as if you're talking to yourself. On the other hand, it is hard to reply to everyone at times.

It seems that some of our folks have decided to move on to another group. It is disappointing that it came to that. I have no idea about nasty PM's being shared so maybe that has left as well. That does tend to show us who we can count on as friends. Hopefully folks will settle into what makes them happy.

I understand about the tension as well. Because that as seemed to be a goal of some as well. I have tried to hang in here and be supportive of my friends but my heart hasn't been in it because of all the other agendas. I will work on doing a better job.

I hope that you will reconsider.

As a group, I would remind us that new folks come here looking for weight loss help. We need to do a better job of supporting each other instead of just taking support and not offering any. We all can do better about supporting and inspiring each other instead of focusing just on ourselves. No excuses for funks.

to everyone who has posted great losses recently. Hang on to those losses. We have a little less than a week left of our first 2x2 challenge of 2005.

Mary.B - Good luck at WW tonight!

Tuesday Tip day - Look at the challenge. Look at the contract. Look at your life. What are you doing to achieve your goals? What are you doing to change your life? Get out of your head and emotions and just move on to a healthier you. If you dwell in the emotions, you'll never make this a permanent change in your life.

I have to get ready for work now. More replies tonight.
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Chris sorry you are leaving. I am very poor at individual replies.


I have just returned here after several months away. Some timnes I feel neglected but I know it is not on purpose. I love it here.

I had a hungry attack yesterday and succumbed to a peanut butter sandwich when I came home from work. But today is another day.

Our children's Librarian was able to save some stuff.

Hope all of you have a great day I love all of you.

Welcome to all newbies.
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That does tend to show us who we can count on as friends. Hopefully folks will settle into what makes them happy.
Well said, Terri! Friends should be friends in more than just fair weather, don't you think? Just because you disagree on something doesn't mean you cut off contact with them, IMHO.

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Originally Posted by determined to succeed
I understand about the tension as well. Because that as seemed to be a goal of some as well. I have tried to hang in here and be supportive of my friends but my heart hasn't been in it because of all the other agendas.
Yeah, I know what you mean. I've tried to be supportive as well, but I keep hearing of people who are complaining about me to the mods, only to be told that since I am not breaking any rules, nothing really can be done. Or at least, that's how the story goes. It makes me wonder why these people are so bored or insecure that they would be uncomfortable with me just posting here; I thought we had all resolved that way back when I first started posting. Ah well? Like you said before, this is a weight-loss forum...people shouldn't bring in their real-life prejudices. It just degrades the thread You'd think their agenda on this thread would be weight loss or support, rather than imposing their views or judgements on other people. Like you said, one can only hope that they eventually go away.

Sorry to see you go, Chris, I haven't been on here much because of the same issues. I just don't feel very welcome anymore; I'm sorry I missed your post about being sick, though
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