Hi

I began losing weight by setting out plates of Healthy

'sliced foods' to snack/graze on day & night: apples, carrots, broccoli, berries, etc. Protein to toss in, setting on top of a green salad I make the evening before; I have absolutely No excuses to eat Stupid snacks anymore, I have a plate conveniently in 2 rooms. My energy & muscles have improved to.
I printed out a calorie/fat chart saying what exercise activity & how long it would take a active person to do to burn up the food. I'm +50 yrs & I don't exercise daily, I'm happy to get 3 miles daily on my Fitbit & lift handweights & on the weekends to use my kayak & go stand-up paddle boarding.
I substitute healthy ingredients & use a recipe for pre-packaged boxed store foods & use half the salt, etc. I cook & bake very similar just Healthier.
W.Watchers has a very good points system, I bought their shopping food points guide book with a eating-out point guide included when I attended a free meeting to see their plan. I don't have the time or $ to weekly weigh-in, so I didn't join. But the points book is a good guide when buying food ingredients & packaged foods & eating out.
I hope that something I do is helpful to you. I'm happier with my body & my life since I began these food changes
I have a son that's 40 yrs old who is obese about 250#, 6' tall, handsome, but single because he's insecure being overweight. He's got 4 University degrees & earns 6 figures yrly at his corporation & so I feel powerless when I bring up his weight being unhealthy. He's got the brains & the $ to get slimmer, but he won't see a doctor for a physical, I think it's his stressful career or his thyroid making him obese & that's dangerous.... I'm scared for him & he won't listen to me because he does eat healthy food most of the time. If he had a girlfriend or a wife he'd see a doctor....
Thank you for listening to my worries about my son, my husband & I pray for him daily to see a doctor & get his healthy body back, it's been several yrs since his weight was below 200#.
I pray that you find the answer to your problem & your wishes become your reality soon