STOP IT, DEB!
I'm going to get on my soap box.
The food is not going to make you feel better. It's not going to help you help your family either. If you make yourself sick you will just be adding to your stress.
Take a deep breath, maybe take a walk, or work in the garden.
Go over in your mind who needs what kind of support. Pick one nearby and call them. If you can offer your help for a couple hours one day this week.
Plan an easy, healthy dinner for you and DH. After dinner call your DD, or another close family member and have a chat. Tell her/them what's happening and ask if there is something she/they could offer to do. Tomorrow, bake cookies and mail them off to someone out of town. A gesture like that will help them, and you, feel better.
We all love you and don't want to see you get sick.
Off the box now.
Hi Obsidianbbw
Welcome to the group.
I had a little off plan slip yesterday but today, so far, has been really good.
To the missing ladies: Come on back. We need you.