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Old 07-27-2009, 08:18 AM   #1  
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This thread is a sub-set of the 300+ thread.

This group is for those dealing with the challenges of having a significant amount of weight to lose and being fit which becomes harder after age 40. If you're an old or new friend and not over 40 and feel this is the place to post, jump right in.
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Morning all!

Well, the scale did cooperate this week and I am down to 200. Onederland is next. I am doing well on the eating and the moving. Isn't this week's challenge from Terri about exercise and challenging ourselves? I feel like I did that a bit this weekend but will think about how to end July with that.
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I will get exercise in today..even if it means going for a walk after dinner tonight.Food is planned for the day, on track so far. Scales are still up..GRR but what do I expect. I havent been pigging but I havent really been doing my best.
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Just changed my ticker..ouch that really hurts!! Time to face it!!
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HI All
I am Amanda 380, (in fact at one point in my life I was very close to 500), over 40 (really over 50) In addition to the weight problem I have many other physical issues of which mobility is one. I was hoping by now I would be walking. But I still must use 2 canes or a rollator to walk a very short distance or use an electric mobility device. My back was injured in my late 30's and I haven't been able to walk since. I am not married, heck not even involved with anyone so this should be an easy weight loss journey but I seem to lack the motivation I once had. I feel like I need the daily buddy support and I am hoping I may be able to find it here. Thanks for listening to my woes.
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Red face Good Morning Ladies!

Hello everyone. It's Lilion, back from the dead. I can't believe I haven't posted in over a month! I'm really sorry I've been gone so long and truly, I haven't even been lurking. I'm a bad weight-loss friend.

I've been really preoccupied with work and trip planning. Work is awful. We're backed up like crazy and losing staff. One fired and one quit. And scheduled to February 2010. I'm behind and on a "corrective" plan to catch up - which is the SECOND plan, because I didn't catch up during the first one so I'm logging lots of overtime. Clearly, they aren't afraid to fire people, so I am not as secure as I used to think I am.

On the trip front, we've picked our apartments we're renting in Paris and Rome in April. We're sending deposits today and then need to get the airfare booked. If Paris doesn't sound familier, it's because the prior plan was Santorini, but the airfare differences was about $2K so we changed the "romantic" part of the trip to Paris. I've always wanted to go to the Louve, and DH has always wanted to go to the Moulin Rogue (actually, the Crazy Horse, I toned him down ), so win-win. Maybe Santorini will be the 20th anniversary.

My weight shows that I'm not paying attention too. I've not lost, and even gained, since I made a "vow" to lose before the trip. I find it hard to care, except I don't know what the heck I'll wear to work each day - all my clothes are getting too tight. I have to do something.

I seem to have only enought attention for two obsessions at a time, it's been work and trip. Maybe once the deposits are paid and the trip plans confirmed, I can make it work and diet again? One can hope.

I hope you all are well. I have missed you guys.

Amanda - I lost 100 lbs and can credit the entire loss to 3fc - granted, I regained 40, but that was me. Seems to me like you've done very well already! I'm sure you will find support here.
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Amanda -- Welcome!! I hope you find some good support here!

Lilion -- welcome back, chickie! I hope you can add us back into your routine!!
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Welcome to our group, Amanda. We're so happy to have you here. I look forward to getting to know you.

Motivation is an illusive butterfly, isn't it? You've really come a long way and experienced real success in losing weight, but your motivation is stalling because you're not yet enjoying the benefits you were reaching for. That is really tough to accept!

If you want to move forward from here, your motivation will need to be fueled by a broader range of specific goals. Mobility is a great goal, and I think it's still a safe one to keep on your goal list, but perhaps you should reframe it in your mind. Have you spoken to your doctor or a physical therapist about what their take would be on future success with walking? Is it merely losing weight that will help you achieve this, or will you need to add some strength and rehabilitaive movement in order to get what you want?

I just ordered a DVD and book on Pilates through my local PBS station (they're offering it as a gift for joining). I'm getting it because it's a more therapeutic level of the exercise and I need help with strengthening my quadraceps and inner and outer thigh muscles plus all the small muscles in my back for good core strength. It's what Pilates was designed for. The DVD is Pilates for Healthy Bodies with Karena Thek Lineback. You might look into it.

Lilion, I'm so glad you're back!

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Happy Monday ladies !!

Amanda Glad you are here You have done amazing so far. Hang in there and keep it up. There is lots of inspiration here.

Hope you all are doing good. I was down 3 more today. At first, it was hard, because I started slipping into that old mentality of it's not good enough. But now, I am happy with it, and I know that there will be bumps along the way. I'm not always going to lose lots, and may gain, or stay the same. It's the way it is. I just need to remember that this is all long term

Georgia .. How have you been doing with MF?

Heather .. Congrats on the loss. I'm hoping next week I will be in the 2's. Geez, never thought I'd be happy with that lol

I got lots of exercise in on the w/end, and even dragged hubby out for a nice long walk on Sunday night. Today I did a Kathi Smith workout. She is EVIL lol

Take care everyone, have a wonderful evening.
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Hi Ladies!
I hope everyone has been doing wonderfully the past several days. I had a fantastic time with our friends. In a nutshell the weekend included: the State Fair, a little pool time, grilling out, the aquarium, an awesome train cake for my son, late night girl talks with my friend, 8 houseguests on Sat night, etc.

I did a decent job staying conscious of my eating however I did indugle a bit too much. I'm hoping the non-stop activity helped to counter balance it. I'll be honest...I'm scared to get on the scale!!! I saw a new low number on Friday. I don't know if I did much damage but I don't want to face it. My plan is to have an awesome eating and exercise week and not step on the scale until Friday. We'll see...

Off to put a lil fella to bed. I'll catch up more when I have time. I'll also share some fun pics of the weekend events.

I will admit it was kinda cool being able to handle all the non-stop activity. I was tired and am tired...mostly from not enough sleep, however, I was definitely the person in our group with the most energy to keep going. I did feel a lil like the Energizer Bunny this weekend.

Catch ya later!
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Amanda - welcome! This is a great group - so insightful and not afraid to offer a kick in the backside when needed. I look forward to getting to know you - post often.

Lilion - great to see you again. The trip sounds wonderful - I want Paris pointers from you - we plan to go May, 2012.

Georgia - relax and let those social opportunities flow. Don't pass them up as being possible boring events - so many times I have prejudged and been so wrong - there really are others like me.

Ruby - great job on the exercise - I'll ask it for Heather - are you posting those minutes on the exercise thread? I understand we are on pace to break the 2007 record.

Debi - doesn't changing the ticker in the wrong direction make it even more painful. Gotta take care of you before you can take care of anyone else - so happy to see you posting.

Barb - I'm also the one with the most energy now - I love it! Sounds like a wonderful weekend - much needed for you. Can't wait to see the pics.

We had a quiet pool Sunday with just my brother and his wife here. Was very nice for a change to not have the pool full. They even waited on themselves. Today was a nice Monday - only 3 days until vacation. Need to start working the menu for while we are gone - have to have a plan.
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Didnt do as well as planned yesterday. Didnt get my water in..well not enough. Exercise didnt happen ...I crashed on the couch after dinner and didnt move till bedtime.I slept from 6pm till 5 am, guess I needed it.Food was ok..but not great! I have to stay away from baked chips..they are evil for me.
I can say my rings are loser today, so maybe thats a step in the right direction again.
Today will consist of all 3 kids being back here. I love having them all but its going to take time for them to adjust to each other again.Today is planned for lunch at the playground for the kids and then I will eat when we get home while they nap.
Water will be a full gallon today, exercise will happen, and food will be according to menu!! NO snacking for me!!
amanada_ hi and welcome
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Hi all!

Regarding motivation, I have a feeling just about everyone experiences it's ebb over time. I know I have!! I can't rely on it. I find having made commitments really helps. And I think Georgia is right about the specific goals -- mobility and health are big ones for me.

I'm actually seeing my goals bearing fruit -- I wanted to be more mobile and be able to do more, and I am!! I never could have done the level of yard work I'm doing before. I have more stamina and strength for hauling roots out of the ground, and prepping beds for gardening. In fact, this is a new hobby for me, one which I would not have started with my original fitness level. That helps keep me going, because I am just doing some of the things that help keep me fit!



I am thinking of planting some lettuce today. I know it's earlier than recommended for fall lettuce, but the next 10 days don't have highs predicted over 80, so I'm thinking the seed might germinate. It will be my first time trying to grow veggies from seed! I have several varieties and even stuck them in the fridge to chill... I'm willing to risk a few...
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Thanks Georgia and everyone else for the words of wisdom and the welcome.
I did sign up last week for the weight loss challenge and I had a goal of 25 pounds in 10 weeks. At the end of that 10 weeks I had planned to reward myself with a DVD movie. Well if you are all doing the challenge, you no doubt saw my gain not loss. Even though I signed up for this challenge it is like my mind didn't. I really can't be going in the up direction and have got to get my butt in gear again and keep on losing. I 'm hoping that by my being here I will be able to get it in gear.


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Welcome to our group, Amanda. We're so happy to have you here. I look forward to getting to know you.

Motivation is an illusive butterfly, isn't it? You've really come a long way and experienced real success in losing weight, but your motivation is stalling because you're not yet enjoying the benefits you were reaching for. That is really tough to accept!

If you want to move forward from here, your motivation will need to be fueled by a broader range of specific goals.

Georgia

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Hi ladies,

I saw a welcome number on the scale this morning. 266.8. I've been hovering about 3 pounds above that for a long time. My goal for the 5 pound challenge by Labor Day is to be at 262 or below.

This morning I actually did some cardio exercise. Something I haven't done in a long time. 15 minutes on the stationary bike. I'll do more time tonight. I'm still struggling with allergy fatigue so getting up early and being perky is a reall challenge.

I've been thinking about the bootcamp challenge. I asked DH what is the purpose of bootcamp. He said its basically to break you of all your habits and retrain you. For me, this week then is about retraining myself to put cardio exercise as a high priority on a daily basis. All the other work is great for toning and I see the benefits of my past exercise in the work that I can do. DH says on a regular basis how fortunate we are that I can work like a pack mule. My plan for the week is to be back up to 45 minutes a day cardio. For this week, that will be at home on the stationary bike. Maybe I can get some things done this week that will allow me time to get to the fitness center starting next week.

Tonights plan for dinner is salmon, fresh tomatoes and brown rice. Lunch will be salad and fruit. I have a lot of cherry tomatoes that I can snarf on as my afternoon snack. I think the tomatoes this year are amazingly good.

Oh and I have a new friend. Bud came to live at our place. Well, hopefully, he can stay for awhile. Bud is a Tennessee Walking Horse. I was saying to DH that I miss Ginger, our old mare, as she was such a great trail horse and I miss that security of a well-trained ride. He asked Anne, the trainer, on Saturday, where to go to find a reliable horse. I was very surprised. I explained to Anne that I am just looking for something where I can feel more comfortable to go riding on my own while we're training Spanky. She offered up that Bud could come live with us for a free lease. He's a bit geriatric but he still has spunk. I think he'll be great for me to be able to get out and ride in some places where I'm not as familiar so that when I do take Spanky, I'll have a better feel for my terrain. Plus, I'm tired of being dependent on others to trail ride. So far, the boys haven't been mean to him but they are keeping him at a distance. Anne did say that if it doesn't work out, bring him home and I can take him to ride anytime I want to. I just don't want him to be lonely because my two boys are buttheads.

Amanda - Welcome to the group! Do you suffer from back pain every day? My DH does so if you do, I really feel for you. Are you able to do any chair exercises? What kind of plan are you following? We're here to help and offer support! As you'll learn about us, we trip and fall on our faces quite frequently but we don't give up. Looking forward to getting to know more about you.

Heather - It is fun to see your excitement about all the gardening stuff. And your ability to get out there and work it like a farm girl. on the scale.

Debi - Hope you have a fun day with the kids. Your body must have needed that sleep. Good thing you listened! Looks like you've got a good plan for the day.

Carol - Where are you headed off to for vacation? Our pool water has been hot, then cold, then warm, then cold. I like relatives who can wait on themselves.

Barb - Sounds like you had a wonderful visit. Happy 4th to Carlton! I can't hardly believe that your oldest is now 4 years old. Time flies so quickly! Thinking about adding a little sister? I see that number in your signature and it is awesome!

Ruby - on your loss. Look at you! You're almost into the 2's. Good job! Let evil Kathy keep kicking butt and you'll be there soon!

Lilion - Hey, its great to see you posting. I was hoping that it was just the work situation and nothing else had happened. However, I would have said that you hadn't posted in a couple of weeks; certainly not a month. Can't believe that time has flown by that quickly. Just post here when you can but keep your focus on that workload. Sorry to see that you're still have such stress and unknown about it. Seems to be that way for a lot of people and it really sucks. Hang in there!

Georgia - I love pilates. I just forget to do pilates. I'm not very good with the social side of life. I spent too much of my adult life working and going to school. I agree about the groups - give them a try. Now's your time to try all kinds of new hobbies or groups and just enjoy the experience.

Ruth- Where are you?

I better get this posted. to all!


Be thinking about your own personal bootcamp. I think we'll do this as a two week challenge in order to get that exercise level kicked up and changed a bit.

Anybody watch Rubyon Style? I was watching her this morning (instead of getting ready to come to work) and she had fired her old trainers because she was bored with the workout and not motivated. She was trying different trainers. They had her boxing, bike riding, using weight balls and dancing in addition to the treadmill and machines. The thing was that these new types of physical exercise were rejuvenating to her motivation. It was fun to watch her joy at riding a bike again. So, if your exercise is getting boring and you're not seeing results....mix it up.

The preview for next week had the therapist saying to her "the morbidly obese Ruby is dying and a new Ruby is being born". That kind of caught my attention. Do we need to envision that this old person with the bad habits and insecurities is dying away to be replaced by a new vibrant, strong person? Is that the key to prolonged success? Hmmmm........

Okay, now I'm posting this.
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