Well I think you are doing great! When I had my son, I only gained 15 lbs while pregnant - weighed less when he was born than I did when he was conceived! But I gained 20+ in the two months I was home with him after he was born! I never could nurse though. I remember the la leche ladies chastising me - "You aren't drinking enough!" I was constantly drinking! "You aren't eating enough!" HELLO! Gained TWENTY pounds!
And my favorite-"You have to feed him every two hours!" I would nurse him for a full hour and he'd still be starved, so I'd give him a bottle and he sucked so slowly - not weakly, s-l-o-w-l-y that it would take him another hour for 4 oz of formula...if I fed him every two hours he'd have never slept!
Fact was I just didn't get any milk to speak of - I remember my mom telling me she couldn't nurse either. I've heard nursing will really help with weight loss actually, especially on the hips and thighs.
OMG! It's brilliant! I now realize why my hips are still so big 12 years later!
I can blame the child!
BTW, I LOVE the little pantyhose saying at the bottom of your sig!