GOOD MORNING!
I am not in a good mood
I have a very big family in Mexico City, my mother is the biggest trouble maker that ever walked on the face of the earth.
I am so glad I am so far away from them it is not even funny.
Basically they have pretended I am not part of the family, first I married very young (in Mex. City) we moved her (w/ex) he had his own business, manufacturing, well to do, bla bla bla. No I didn't come here illegally. He used to bit me up, so I divorced him. My family wanted me to sell my condo and move back home, I am so glad I didn't. Then I met my DH and obviously I remarried. My mother who thinks she is very important and so on, never forgave me for getting divorced, oh well, her problem not mine. Dh is not Jewish so that gives her another reason not to be nice. And when we adopted DS she freeked, not because we adopted but because he is black. Go figure! So I don't really want her around, I don't want her to hurt DS in any way with any smart a** comment. In my eyes she is EVIL! DH doesn't care for her either.
My sister who can do no wrong in my mother's eyes, is a little witch, she had 3 children, one of her boys is having his bar mitzva in May, she called to tell me the date so I would be there, well I have been living here for 18 yrs. she has come to visit ZERO times, I got married, I got DS there has been plenty of times for her and her s****d husband to come and share with us, but of course they wouldn't he thinks he is better than any member of our family.
Anyway, I just found out my dear sister had been here in the states recently, she came shopping for every one in the family of the bar mitzva, didn't even bother to call I would have maybe meet her NO PROBLEM, but no!! so there is this big fight going on between my mother/sister/me. Why don't I come, how dare I don't bother yet anther time. Every time I go to visit even if its just for a weekend it cost us no less than a couple K, and it is very stressful, always fights, my mother just doesn't know how to live and let others be happy. If I was to go I would have to stay with her, if not she would cause too many problems for my aunts, and that's not fair, I go for a couple of days and then my aunts have to live with all the problems for many months to come. I will not do it to them.
DH and I talked about it and we are going to take a family vacation instead! and make great memories!!! thanks for letting me vent!
Lauren I am so glad your mom is doing ok,
Sheila I am with you gal, take a vacation, I need one too, BADLY!!!
Melinda I agree with Sheila you need to get out more! there are good man out there!
GG congratulations on the loss, yeah!!! you are on the right track, keep that work out going!
Krinstan that is so great to have an exchange student, have a great time, good luck with the computer. Get some rest while DH is not home, get a massage!
I got to go to the gym, I have to get rid of some of my stress!!
and I have shopping for Saturday's birthday party for DS! he still wants a power rangers cake, I will do my best!
Talk to you guys later!
Hanna
30 something wed April 25th
The thing about guys here in Kazoo-they only go for the super hot women or the booty ugly. If you're average looking, with a few extra pounds and are intelligent (as a woman), guys won't even look twice. They SAY they want a woman that is independant and good looking enough to be attractive but not hot enough to attract a ton of attention....MY REAR! Roo-I love you, babe...but you're married and married guys always have a different perspective....so don't dare tell me I'm wrong!!! 
) and try to fix our computer problems. My brother in law who`s the freak for computers said we should try and save the stuff and get a new one. Thank you so much..... Eating is going ok but I havenŽt been to the gym because of this terrible allergic reaction.....I hope to get back on track tomorrow.
Just brought mom home. Going to get her settled, then try and enjoy the day!
