Wow, I should answer my own question, don't you think?
For my perfect Valentine's Day, my boyfriend would get me flowers, of course. looooove getting flowers.
We would go to some really nice hotel (the kind where you don't have to worry about what you'd find w/ a black light), with a big jacuzzi tub and a fireplace and soft comfy robes and slippers. The bf and I would lounge in a jacuzzi full of bubbles, talking and whatnot. We'd just hang around in the room most of the day, enjoying each other's company. At night we'd get dressed up and go somewhere for dinner, then maybe see a show or a concert or something. At the end of the night we'd return to the hotel, and have some Valentine fun in front of the fireplace