Hi Lulu!
We have a similar goal and I only started a little bit ago. I can only imagine how hard it must be for your husband to be so far away and for so long. My boyfriend is in the Navy and I know how much I miss him, and he hasn't been gone any longer than a month, plus he doesn't have to go fight on land.
Join in on any conversations, this board is great! And check out the challenges, they're a good way to add some motivation!