I really did have my eye on #2.
Thank you all for the responses and I know ultimately it's MY decision regardless of what people think but I have such a hard time seeing myself as a 137lb woman instead of 220lb that trying to envision what I look like in a wedding gown was just too much for me to handle.
I did however send the pictures to my twin brother who loved #2 as well. He said I looked stuffed and uncomfortable in #1.
I'm going to try on more gowns at the end of the month and hopefully have my final decision made by Early October so we can start the alterations.
THANK YOU ALLL SO MUCH FOR EVERY SINGLE SWEET WORD AND ADVICE YOU HAVE GIVEN.
I'm tempted to either buy #2, and buy a #1-type dress for the party later on

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