Thread to "let it all out" and complain!!
 

Hey all, sometimes I like to just plain ol' whine even though it is annoying, so I figured this is the thread for anyone complain without judgement-no matter how childish it sounds! :o
Here goes-
I WANNA BE SKINNNAAAAY!! darn it, its been like nearly a month, lemme be skinnay! Also, those NYC fashionable women need to stop being so pretty and tiny!! and with hot boyfriends! meanwhile im always like hmmm how do I dress to hide my gut? lolol
Also I wanna buy a huge loaf of whole wheat bread and a big jar of nutella and dig IN! I wanna make big nutella and honey and honey peanut butter sandwiches (so insane)
also its raining and I dont feel like exercising uggggggh I just wanna sit at home, but I overate a bit today
also, i haaate stress and i miss being able to escape from it. i stress out about the smallest stupidest things, like sending an EMAIL!! (does it sound right?, did i say the right things?) im so stressed out about writing to professors, all i want to do is dig into nutella and just forget it all! it doesnt help that i am a bit socially awkward!
I always feel SOOO guilty about calling friends/fam when i have lame problems, but it helps so much grrr and its better than eating it all away
ok phew :^:
i can rationalize this stuff, but still, i do like to let it all out haha

Writing e-mails to professors IS awkward. I hate doing it!

I just want a bag of m&ms...and to not have to do homework for these summer courses...

I live in NJ so we're in the same weather. The cool cloudy weather has been a welcome change from this insane heat. Today was the first in a few I've felt somewhat human being outside running.

All in all I'm in a pretty good mood right this second. I've been feeling very positive despite my life not being where I want it to be, but I'll bite.

Today a college acquaintance of mine is getting married. We sort of belonged to the same clique and have a lot of mutual friends. I really wasn't expecting an invite to the wedding but I'm just a little upset that a ton of my friends are getting together, having fun and I'm sitting on my couch. It also annoys me that nearly all of my college girlfriends are pretty much getting married all at once and I'm super single. Even in college I never had any desire to get married at 24. I don't actually want to be married, it's just frustrating. I must admit though, thinking about this wedding really pushed me through my run today so it wasn't all bad.

Additionally, I have no money to write them a check and probably wouldn't love trying to find a dress to wear at this weight so I can't complain that much.

Sorry you need a vent session-I understand. My whine of the day is that I wish very much that I could actually lose weight week to week. Most weeks I lose nothing. It freaks me out-and then I get to the end of the month and lose four pounds. Hey, it's a great loss, but I wish I could lose just a bit more. Maybe twice that, for starters. I work hard everyday and my eating is good. Gosh darn it! /endwhine

I enjoy a good immature whine fest myself, but rarely find those who understand not to take me seriously. lol My complaint of the day, or this whole journey is, (and this is gonna knock down any reputation I might've/could've had if I posted more,) I miss being drunk. all. the. time. That's part of the reason I gained weight... Sure it was after a breakup that I took up this delightful habit, but I was kinda basking in the immature, complete lack of responsibility of that time. I know now that I will have to really watch my drinking, and especially have to be careful with beer (I switched to whiskey primarily to cut the calories, which is still nice, but beer will have to be a special treat from now on.) Not something I often talk or complain about, but it is part of being more responsible for my body as I become thinner and more healthy.

My other complaint is more to do with my health. I had an unknown illness about two years ago which I have primarily recovered from, but since then I struggle a lot more with feeling tired and just 'off'. I used to be able to live on 1200 calories a day when I wanted to lose weight, but now I feel just horrible if I do that for more than a couple days. I know I ought to get to the bottom of it with a doctor, but it does make weight loss more difficult and slower.

I'm with you mel! Summer courses SUCK! I wish I had a big piece of juicy chocolate on chocolate cake...but can't! BLAH. I do anything I can to not have to do homework..can't continue to avoid it though or I will get behind! :(

I just found out that I have to work on Fathers Day, because my boss changed the schedule yesterday. I have been planning a suprise trip home to see my dad for three weeks. I've been in tears since I got off work at 6:30. :( WHY is my boss so damn inconsiderate?!

TOM just started, I'm stressed and upset. All I want to do is curl up on the couch with Ben & Jerry... but I'm NOT going to do it.

My son came home from a day out with his aunt with a huge box of timbits! He was all "Have a doughnut Mommy, they're little." But I couldn't have one. I was already feeling guilty about putting too much granola into my yogurt. I was feeling guilty for eating granola!

The he tortured me with the story about how he had hotdogs and fries for lunch. I want fries! With ketchup, or better yet, tartar sauce!

Ok let's see...I've been in the house all day, rain rain go away. I have a busy 7month old who doesn't like to sleep. I have a sick dog who I just dishes out 300+ for, I am a SAHM who now has to look for work bc the police dept doesn't want to pay their officers a decent amount of money so we can survive. All the daycares on he area has no infant availability... I haven't been able to get to the gym so I've been 176 for some days ....That is all Thanks :)

I appreciate this thread! I'm frustrated about money! There never seems to be enough of it!! Stupid mortgage eats it all! And I'm suuuuper underwater in my condo anyway so there's no end in sight - I couldn't unload it if I wanted to! And I'm 27 (soon to be 28 on Aug 12th) and I am just ready to move on to the next phase of my life... marriage, kids, etc. I have a good job, own my own place, have lived alone for 3+ years, have a wonderful boyfriend of nearly 2 years... It's just TIME dammit! But no, I have to wait at least until he finishes his certification to become a CPA which might take until January 2012 or LONGER, depending on how quickly he can pass all the tests. *sigh*

My life isn't bad, and I generally enjoy it, but it's just been the SAME for about a year. I feel like everything is in place to just move into the next phase but nothing. is. happening. And it's out of my control! And I'm such a control freak. :)

Done!

Thanks for this thread! I've been wanting to complain about my midsection for awhile but didn't really feel like starting my own thread. ;)

So here's why I hate my mid-section:

-I keep seeming to lose weight in my chest/hips but my weight is incredibly stubborn.

-Currently there is a 5-6" difference between my natural waist and my lower belly so even if my natural waist line doesn't look to bad I look pregnant (I'm not) because of my lower belly.

-I hate feeling hungry when I've eaten enough for the day

Mostly I just hate how big my mid-section is and that I have a built in muffin top. I'm glad I'm losing elsewhere but I hate how more prominent that makes my stomach look. It's just so hard to cover that up!!!

Oh, and I hate that we don't have money for new clothes right now. I went to the mall this week and tried some on and I looked so much better in them but we just can't afford them right now. :(

I have a few whines, and nobody around my house will listen so here goes...

I've been in maintenance forever and a day. And I'm suddenly GAINING again and don't know why. I'm ready to beat my head into a wall and just say "screw it all, give me a donut."

I hate, sometimes, how I just can't eat normally anymore. I know what I eat now is healthy, but you know, sometimes I just want to be able to sit down at Texas Roadhouse and eat a few deep fried chicken fingers and some fries without feeling horrible afterward. Not only mentally and emotionally horrible, but physically like I'm going to throw up. Eating food that's bad for me isn't even worth it anymore because of how it makes me feel and I hate it. There's no room in my life anymore FOR donuts and cake and chicken fried steak with gravy. And believe me, in Texas, it's hard to go out to eat or eat at someone's house where I have no control over the food.

Third (I'll stick with three) I'm so sick of having no rain. Literally in 2011, we have had 2 inches of rain total. It's been over 100 degrees for the past 10 days and we have another 7+ with the same temperatures. Last Saturday was 114. Our electric bill is going to be through the roof and everything is dying outside from no moisture. Grass fires are crazy bad.

I'm stressed to all **** about moving back to the US, I have to dispose of everything in my apartment (2 bedrooms) including all the furniture, ripping up carpets etc, and I don't have a car or even a bicycle so I don't know how that's going to happen.

I keep seeing photos of myself from 5-10 lbs ago and I looked so good then and I hate feeling like I've let myself go. No one cares except me, and I spend a lot of time pretending I don't, but who am I kidding?

I've been working out decently for a couple months or around there now. I've noticed weight loss all over basically. But, it seems most of it is everywhere except my FAT ARMS. It's getting frustrating because the rest of me is getting smaller and my arms are looking even bigger due to the loss everywhere else.

That's one of my petty problems that has been on my mind a lot lately!

I notice a bit more muscle I think? It's just the hanging flab underneath it.

Originally Posted by krampus:
I'm stressed to all **** about moving back to the US, I have to dispose of everything in my apartment (2 bedrooms) including all the furniture, ripping up carpets etc, and I don't have a car or even a bicycle so I don't know how that's going to happen.

Moving is HORRIBLE! I hate moving across town...I can't IMAGINE moving to a different country and back!!!

Originally Posted by Astrild:
I miss being drunk. all. the. time.

...me too. I've only been 21 for close to two months and I've already realized I can't freaking drink if I want to lose. period. and it makes me GRUMPY. I wanna be a college kid, dangit! Ok, sure, so I celebrated my 21st birthday for 5 weeks straight, but still... guh.

Also, i'm grumpy that everything that tastes good seems to be off limits. I mean, honestly, I'd rather eat nothing than eat healthy sometimes.

I miss my boyfriend. He's 3.5 hours away for the summer and I'm seeing him for the first time since Memorial Day on the 24th. I hate this long distance crap. I wanna go back to Tuscaloosa and be with him. I'm lonely. :(

I'm so tired of being told I don't need to lose anymore weight. Anyone with any knowledge of what's really normal would know that I'm closer to overweight than underweight right now. I'm tired of being fat. I've been fat for too damn long. I want to be skinny and no one is going to take that from me.

I want the scale to MOVE. Guh.

Oh, and I WANT A FREAKING 1000 CALORIE BURRITO FROM MOES. :mad:

Ok, sorry, guys.

I am so sick of cravings. I keep promising myself that once I hit 130 I can eat half a chocolate bar. I can't stop thinking about eating one and ritz cheese crackers. I can't seem to get past the 133 mark though. I guess it's a good thing in a way. I really don't need chocolate even though my taste buds think I do. Once I hit 130 though, I will have lost 15 pounds, so that's why I want to wait. Then I will have another 15 pounds to go to my goal weight. Hopefully I can.

I've been staying with my mom since my car is being repaired and she's been bringing me to work and whatnot.. and she has junk food in the house.. lots of it. I've been eating TERRIBLY. Chocolate covered bananas, ice cream, brownies, raviolis, eesh. And I should feel bad, I really should, but I don't. I feel bad that I don't feel bad.

Just let me get HOME already!

I'm a big girl... that's why I'm here. But I've got nothing up top, which has always been a sore spot of mine.

I've started to lose a bit, and I'm feeling better. But where am I losing weight? Yup, up top. Where I don't have much to give! Ugh!

It's been 7 months and I'm still not close to goal >:(. Yes, I've lost a lot, but the lbs are just holding on for dear life, scraping away as if they're saving themselves up for some sort of impending ice age. This diet is taking over my brain...I can't enjoy food, I never feel satisfied, and it's making me obsessed...not to mention crotchety and annoying to be around, because I'm so preoccupied thinking about it. I mean for god's sake, I eat the amount of calories that some anorexics do, and I still lose mere ounces a week, if anything. ARGHHHHHHHHHHHH.



Hopefully, for the sake of my sanity, this will all be done with in 4-5 more months, and I can start eating maintenance (the wonderful glimmer of hope at the end of a very long, dark, and fiber-y tunnel.)

I hate that I have muffintops and a fudgy midsection now. I used to have heavy legs and a nice stomach but now as I got older and I lost and gained the same 10 pounds I have found that overall my thighs got skinnier (they are by far not skinny yet) and my stomach got chubby and jiggly and gross.
It sucks

Originally Posted by :
Also I wanna buy a huge loaf of whole wheat bread and a big jar of nutella and dig IN!

Preaching to the choir sister!!! lol

I just wanna walk down the street with no one giving me those pity looks!!!!!!!!!!!!

I love this thread. Sometimes a good whine session is all we need! Just get it out of our system with others who understand!

I want to spot reduce, darnit! I want to be able to say "Lose the fat in my arms first... then my stomach. After those are normal-sized we can talk about losing fat elsewhere."

Warning: my complaint is probably wayyy TMI!

I had almost non-stop sex all weekend with my new boyfriend and now have a raging UTI. Attempting to treat it just with water, cranberry capsules, asparagus and urinary health tea, but it's feeling like I may need to go get antibiotics for this one. Why do things that feel so good always have to feel so bad later on???? :(

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Hi there,

I'm sad that I gained back all the weight I originally came here to lose.

I wish that I could be one of the "skinny" girls too.

:(

Originally Posted by alicia89:
Warning: my complaint is probably wayyy TMI!

I had almost non-stop sex all weekend with my new boyfriend and now have a raging UTI. Attempting to treat it just with water, cranberry capsules, asparagus and urinary health tea, but it's feeling like I may need to go get antibiotics for this one. Why do things that feel so good always have to feel so bad later on???? :(

Eek! Sometimes you can head them off with water and cranberry juice, but I would say that you need to get some antibiotics. You will feel so much better so much faster!

Ugh I want to whine too. I love losing weight, I love the body change. But I am POOR and trying to keep in clothes that fit and don't look stupid is hard. I'm doing what I can recycling my things at goodwill and value village, but it still starts to add up. I currently have several cute bottoms that fit and no tops that really fit, they all hang quite a bit. Also I only have one bra that fits and it's now pretty ripped after my really ungraceful dismount from a horse the other day.... I want clothes!

Originally Posted by fullofhope:
Ugh I want to whine too. I love losing weight, I love the body change. But I am POOR and trying to keep in clothes that fit and don't look stupid is hard. I'm doing what I can recycling my things at goodwill and value village, but it still starts to add up. I currently have several cute bottoms that fit and no tops that really fit, they all hang quite a bit. Also I only have one bra that fits and it's now pretty ripped after my really ungraceful dismount from a horse the other day.... I want clothes!

Yep, I'm dealing with that too but we don't have any thrift stores around that I can afford so I'm basically in way-too-big clothes. :( Today the last pair of blue jeans that I had that sort of fit, well, my DD just learned how to pull down her own pants to pee and she thought it would be fun to do that on everybody in our household... so long story short it turns out they are so baggy that even a toddler can pull them down without them being unbuttoned! :o

My tops are just ridiculously hug and DD now claims that I'm wearing dresses! Oh, and I FINALLY got to order new bras (early b-day gift! :carrot:) but they're taking forever to arrive in the mail. UGH! :mad:

Originally Posted by :
so long story short it turns out they are so baggy that even a toddler can pull them down without them being unbuttoned!

Oops! Yeah I tend to wear things until they are able to slip off without any help. I have quite a few stairs from my parking lot to my apartment and I've more than once had my hands full and ended up flashing the entire street below! Ugh! :P

Originally Posted by fullofhope:
Oops! Yeah I tend to wear things until they are able to slip off without any help. I have quite a few stairs from my parking lot to my apartment and I've more than once had my hands full and ended up flashing the entire street below! Ugh! :P

Yikes! And sadly familiar... It's hard to remember to wear a belt on pants that used to be super tight on me. It's a good thing but not always the easiest to remember. :o

ugh, ive been at my current job for 2 years now and they cut my hours back to pretty much nothing. so i had to move back home and at this rate i feel like im going to be stuck here forever! and what really sucks is they gave my old hours to another girl who hasnt been there as long as me and her husband has a good job so she doesnt *need* the hours like i do.. its so annoying but everyone knows how it is i cant find a 2nd or new job... its just.. idk it just sucks!

I hate that maintaining feels just as depriving as dieting. I'm not even HAPPY here but I can't seem to lose because I have binges every couple weeks or so. I hate 90% of photos and I weigh 20-30 pounds more than all my coworkers who are way older than I am and who have had kids. I have a crappy body with crappy proportions and I'm covered in bug bites and have a tan (I HATE being tan). Summer is great but as far as feeling good about how I look is concerned, it can fall crotch-first on the blade of an ice skate.

1000 lunges, millions of squats, hours of exercise/cardio, low carb and low calorie dieting, a loss of 25 lbs and I still cant walk into a juniors store and fit into less than a size 9 jeans.
Hips still basically 38.5' and I think they measured 40' when I first started losing weight.
I still have a goal of 10-15 more lbs but cant help to think that even then ill be doomed to this pear shaped body with a really bulky/ thick lower half. I went window shopping yesterday and as I was trying things on I noticed SOME slimming in the thighs and legs. Still, considering all my hard work and the calories Ive passed up on it kind of all seems in vain when I look at my reflection or struggle to get my thigh into a pair of jeans that I would've struggled with 20 lbs ago.

Im so jealous of ppl who can lose 5-10lbs and their pants/ jeans are falling off of them. Sounds so silly and petty but hey the grass is always greener....

I'm tired of the summer (Texas) heat! I'm tired of my damn legs chaffing every time I go for a walk or just move! I'm tired of excersizing and eating right and still being fat (even though I know rationally, duh, I did this to myself)! I'm tired of all these darn photo taking at special events! Congratulations on all the weddings and graduations and engagements - but do I really have to participate in photo sessions at each and every event? I don't need a reminder of how fat I am.

Bleh. There it all is. :)

I am soooo fed up with the 2 other girls I work with in the front being completely lazy all the time. I am the only person who does everything that needs to be done and its not like this is a hard job! All we're responsible for is putting patients information into a chart on the computer, scanning their papers, and then handling medical requests, and answering phones. That's pretty much all there is to it.. Not only do they not put all the info in, they leave paperwork that we receive that needs to be reviewed laying all over the place. And when they request/get back records they don't document it anywhere!!!! I come in and I have no idea whats going on whats where and who needs what.. So frustrating trying to do my job the best that I can and not being able to from because they're just dang lazy! And then one of the girls is soooo nasty that she leaves like dirty dishes and half empty cups laying everywhere up here... She literally has dishes in the back of drawers under files.. how ridiculous is that?? Ugh!!

Ok done ranting! hahaha!

I am tired of my neighbors. I am home almost all the time this summer, live in subsidized apartment, of the other units (8 total) in this building there are
1 alcoholic older man who never bathes
2 alcoholic older woman who is nosey and will mooch/borrow/bore you to death
with disgusting stories if you let her
3 alcoholic man who gets thrown into jail every now and then
4 schizophrenic guy
Why do they bother me so much? Schizo hangs out on my level (even though he lives upstairs and can talk for 10 hours straight, has woken me up, prevented me from sleeping etc etc. and the drinkers will hang out with him. I used to feel bad for him, and others, but being even casually cordial as I come and go has brought me too much trouble and instrusion in my life, so after the last round of BS, I now do not even acknowledge most of these people. So it's just a little uncomfortable even taking my garbage out because I have to walk past/around these people.
Just a rant!

I have to do strength training and cardio this morning at the gym after working overnight 11pm-7am. It's going to take almost 2 hours, so by the time I get home it'll be 9am. I have to work on some very overwhelming projects at home for my business, and actually put in a lot of work because I have off tonight and have no excuses. I feel very fat and bloated despite having experienced 1.5-2 lbs in weight loss very recently. Usually when I lose a few lbs I can see and feel it and it makes me feel good, but not today. My pants are getting big on me but they're uncomfortable and made of scratchy fabric. I have to do a lot of laundry. Tonight is my last day off, then I have to work 7 nights in a row, My bra underwires keep poking at my armpits. My eyebrows are starting to get unkempt and I have to get them threaded. I haven't blow dried & flat ironed my hair in days because I've been working out every morning and I can't be bothered to be doing my hair all the time.

I second the chocolate and the summer courses. Why did i think taking research would be a good idea? I know ive been working out hardcore only since the beginning of the
month but im ready for my results Now! Lol

Ranting...
Have been feeling emotional and sorry for myself since Tuesday.. must be hormones or something..

and EVERY LITTLE THING is wrecking my head.. a very good mate of mine is such a lovely girl but has been in a downer negative mode for about 5 months and although usually i'm quite the listener and upbeat person... i can't handle the down down down... and then i have guilt cos i didn't text her to say hi and see how she was, cos i knew the reply would be " work is crap sick of being alone , need a boyfriend" and i couldn't take the negative.. sometimes i just want to get te positivity back in return ...

ok rant over ..ah this is good therapy..

will try pull it back together and cop on... and i also like your comment, of feeling bad for not feeling bad haha that exactly what i have been doing for 3 days...

ok thanks for the place to rant :) grrrrrrrrrrrr

oh also ... i kinda went MAJORLY iff plan for the past 2 days and i just know that ill be up by Saturday Carbs and melted cheese etc VERY BAD.. ahhhhhhhhhh

Why did I take a Human Sexuality class? ..I'm not immature but this is seriously gross!
130.6 this morning .. not happy with the fact that I keep self sabotoging. I can gladly say I did awesome today with my calories and its' Day 2 of JM 6 weeks to 6 pack DVD. If I had only not messed up so much in May I would probably be near my GW now. But no I suck!