[junebug41]

I don't think you will regret sticking by your guns on this. I'm sort of the same way and have been called out on it. But you know what? I stood by what I believed and didn't let some random person convince me to do something I would regret (and flashing your goods on the internet is a doozy). People will stoop to stupid levels to talk you into doing stupid things. Just remember that! You will thank yourself later.

[tea2]

I'm not 20-something here, but it's common for a certain kind of guy to berate women who refuse them sexually by projecting *their* inappropriateness onto you rather than acknowledging the (EXTREME) inappropriateness of the request in the first place. Some will do this even when you're just expressing a preference or slowing things down. A normal guy will be disappointed, but accommodate what you feel comfortable with or else say, "Well, we're looking for different things" and leave it at that.

So in his head, you're weirdly conservative and he doesn't have to acknowledge his own (SUBSTANTIAL) weirdness. [The bracketed words are my opinion on the matter, heh.].

And yeah, in any relationship, as you say, you can have any kind of fun you want as long as you both agree on it.

[prepping]

I can't believe some people. That guy is a creep to the max. And since when does a guy giving a free mooning constitute being sexy?

Cut all ties and move on to someone worthy of you.

[XLMuffnTop]

I think standing up and saying I'm worth more than giving you a free peep show IS your self esteem coming through.

The girls that lack that feel the need to cave in to please other people and flash their ta-ta's.

No good guy would ever in a thousand years ask for something like that. And even if he did, he wouldn't try to make you feel like a pile of turd for making a decision about what to do (or not to do!) with your own body.

Stay away from him at all costs!!