I hear you Krizstyling. I want to be healthy too (didn't mean to imply that I didn't)...I want to be happy with myself and at peace with myself too. My "I want to be hot" kick was just something that hit me today pretty hard.
Oh trust, I feel you on that!!! I had one of those days the other morning. Turning on a little cocky Kanye West or Pretty Girl Rock by Keri Hilson def helps me feel better =)
I wear a uniform which doesn't exactly help my I want to be hot situation....Beige pants, white shirt, red and blue tie and an ugly blue blazer that is too big for me...so much for not being soo hot at work.
Ouch! I don't think I would handle a uniform well. I think they would look horrible on me, and then I would feel horrible all day everyday.
I walked into my interview for the job I'm at now (and LOVE!), the lead dispatcher was in a deputy/corrections officer style uniform, beige. I thought to myself "I will NOT take this job if I have to wear that" I am so thankful everyday that we can wear whatever we want, and not that!
Ouch! I don't think I would handle a uniform well. I think they would look horrible on me, and then I would feel horrible all day everyday.
I walked into my interview for the job I'm at now (and LOVE!), the lead dispatcher was in a deputy/corrections officer style uniform, beige. I thought to myself "I will NOT take this job if I have to wear that" I am so thankful everyday that we can wear whatever we want, and not that!
Yep it does suck especially because it's not form fitting at all. I look about 10 pounds heavier then I am in my uniform. But I was speaking with my crush about it and said they should get a nice big red nose for me it will help suit me. He laughed and shook his head saying the uniform isn't that bad that he's seen worse...so it made me feel a little better.
I definitely want to be the "Hot mom." I'm 29 and just had my 3rd baby a few months ago. I have always been the big girl and I am so tired of it. This morning was probably the worst feeling of that and I decided to come back to this site for the help. So glad to see I have others who feel the same way.
This made me laugh because the whole time I was pregnant with my daughter, I kept telling my husband that I wanted to be a MILF after she was born. So, here's to becoming a MILF!!
Totally. I work in a high school and my students are all 16 and 17 years old. So I spend most of my life trying NOT to be hot. And when I'm working, I want to be comfortable. So hot....man, i would just like the chance to be hot
I'm on a two week rotation, and it's directly related to my cycle. The week before and the week of my TOM, I feel ridiculously frumptastic. No matter what the scale says or how well my skinny jeans fit, I feel like a blimp. Then for the next two weeks, I feel thin and pretty and want to wear flattering clothes.
"Fat days" are a real phenomenon. When your body is most fertile around ovulation, you feel attractive and *ahem* more frisky. Your brain's natural way of saying it's baby-makin time. On the least fertile days, you aren't as receptive to the whole idea of being naked, haha.
I've ruined many relationships because guys like confident woman, and Im not, per say. I mean Im not trying to be vain but i have a pretty face, but the rest of my body. . . not so much. lol.
Im that saying cute face, chubby waist! lol.
I want to be hot, i want to feel sexy. And even though i try to love myself the way I am, i just can't feel sexy at my size and weight. .
New year, new me!
Mickey- You reminded me that when I was 4 and my sister was 13 we were at a public shower and I looked her right in the eyes and said "how come you have such a pretty face and such and ugly body?" How horrible am I!!!?? Great thing to say to a 13 yr old with weight issues huh? Anyway sorry you just reminded me of that.
I would love to get back to HOT one day but I will settle for MILF status.
Mickey- You reminded me that when I was 4 and my sister was 13 we were at a public shower and I looked her right in the eyes and said "how come you have such a pretty face and such and ugly body?" How horrible am I!!!?? Great thing to say to a 13 yr old with weight issues huh? Anyway sorry you just reminded me of that.
I would love to get back to HOT one day but I will settle for MILF status.
Ouch , does she hold that against you today even if you were 4 years old?
sure, everyone has fat days and pms days, but being/feeling hot certainly has nothing to do with weight. i'm pretty sure i could point out a couple of not-so-hot skinny girls, and a few stunning not-stick-thin beauties!
first off, dress nice! you don't need to dress like you're stepping out to the club, watch a few episodes of What Not To Wear if you must, but enjoy dressing yourself up! even for work!
do your hair for no reason! i've recently started curling just the tips of my hair... and everytime i do it people tell me my hair looks great or ask if i've just been to the hairdresser. lol. and it takes like 10 minutes.
do your makeup!!! wearing makeup is not to HIDE your face, it's to enhance it. like i always say, makeup makes ugly girls ok, plain girls pretty, pretty girls beautiful, and beautiful girls stunning! makeup is your friend! and i love playing with it...
so even if you have a boring job, you can get yourself minded for your day by presenting yourself nicely. even if you work at a school, or wear a uniform, you can dress your face and hair, wear accessories, heck, wear hot underwear under your clothes! no one will know but you and you WILL feel hot
so all in all, i guess what i'm saying is : YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE!!
+10000 to KawaiiCandie's post. Though for those of us in the "in between sizes" stage it is awfully hard to put together a confidence-inspiring outfit sometimes without wearing the same thing 7 days a week.
i wanna be hot too!!! who doesnt? we, women, wanna feel hot and sexy at all times, some of us dont care about our weight, but some like me do, I used to be the skinny hot girl, and few years later im not anymore, my goal this year is to be back at my best, and maybe even better (healthier)!!! i cant wait to lose my extra pounds, and wear cute dresses and other clothes and not have to worry about my rolls showing!
good luck ladies!!!!
xoxo
YES!!!! you totally got it girlie! I think we all want to be hot lol getting healthier is great too but for me being in my 20s I would love to look in the mirror and think wow i look hot lol
, does she hold that against you today even if you were 4 years old?
