I have friends but none of them are going though this, none of them no how i feel,the struggles i have everyday or what im thinking about.I want a friend who will help me succeed and that i can push as well, i want someone to cross that finish line with ya know.

My husband is doing it as well but i talk with him everyday and i just need something... i dont know...!

I dont know what this really is but yeah lol

This is why 3FC was made -- to give all of us someone to lean on And just saying, losing 30+ pounds is something to seriously be proud of

I know what you mean,... just someone to talk to and complain to and celebrate with!

I'll be your friend, lol!

I hear you! I feel like my family and co-workers are getting tired of my chatter about weight and surgery and food. I try to not say much but this is my new life! I'll be your friend too! I love this site. So many helpful people!

Same here! Its hard not to have anyone to talk to about it. My DH gets so sick of listening to me talk about what I eat, exercising, what clothes fit.. he is proud of me but I guess it can get pretty annoying.

That is why I love this place!

I feel like this tonight too. Not so much about the weight loss issues, but just about my life. And the worst thing is that I have lots of wonderful friends who I'm sure would bend over backwards to be there for me, but I work at 5am and just can't afford to lost out on sleep by turning to them tonight. How sad is that? Lol.

At the same time, I also need 3FC like nothing else because I don't have anyone in my life who I feel will truly support me, root for me, and completely understand what I'm going through. So thank god for these forums.

Wooo, looks like i have got me some new friends now... its just a weird feeling i get sometimes where i feel like.. this is one of the biggest defining moments of my life and i want everyone to be part of it, yet no one understands any of it....they dont get how big it is because they dont get the emotions behind it and what it means for me..

Does this make sense lol. Anyway, i was thinking of getting a screen name and or starting a private chat room where anyone can go and talk when they wanted to...just an idea though

I know exactly how you feel. Feel free to private message me

ooh yeah, i would love doing that!