Another older chickie here.
When I was in my 20's I was in the bar scene to meet guys - I didn't know any better & my girlfriends liked to party. I grew up in Southern California and there were about a billion gorgeous tan blondes around! I couldn't compete. I am very pale skinned, black hair, very dark eyes, very tall (which some men like - but I'm not the California Beach Chick hottie that the guys wanted to hook up with).
Even though guys, esp. young dudes, are very visual and kind of superficial a lot of the time they usually get over it and find someone to love who isn't "perfect." They sure aren't!
I have to admit, if I met my hubby when I was younger I wouldn't have given him my phone number! He's bald, wears glasses, shy, can't dance. Fast forward to my late 30's. I see past those qualities to a well-educated, sweet, funny man with twinkly blue eyes and a great smile.
Long story short, CatRocks, all I can say is don't ever take a stranger's passing you by in a bar as being IN ANY WAY indicative of your beauty or anything else. And applause for keeping away from the unhealthy food!
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