I do find that if I push through and exercise during my TOM, I feel MUCH better. Although the weight gain is still there, I find that I don't *feel* so bloated if I exercise. It might be all mental, but I'll take what I can get!
I've also found that cramps are MUCH less intense if I exercise.
I will say that the week of my period is the hardest time to motivate myself though - I really do have to force myself to hit the gym on the days I feel crampy and icky.
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