advice on men?
hey ladies,
i know i post a lot of stuff that isnt on topic, but to be honest, especially with this one, none of my friends really know what to tell me so i'm hoping maybe one of you might.
ok so i met this incredible man a few months ago, it was seriously like love at first site...well maybe lust but hey either way right? anyways he was in this play and he was amazing and i got to tell him how good he was and he told me to look him up on myspace since he needed to go eat before the next show and they were leavin the next day...yes very sad for me. anyways i did and we talked a lil. i found out he was 41 ganna be 42 (yea i'm only 21 but he looked like he was in his late 20's/early 30's) and sooooo gorgeous and sexy deep voice. anywyas long story short, my guy friend came into town and he came over and brought some friends. they were all partyin it up and they stopped by so he could see me since i wasnt going to go out with them. he was a lil drunk and saying stuff like he was ganna sleep in my bed and we were ganna ahve fun, which is a huge joke between us. id never have sex with him, but this girl that was there liked him. so anyways i go about my night and i end up in a tequilla shot contest (yea i kicked all the guys butts). so they leave and i pass out. i wake up the next morning and my internets out and i have a note from the apartmen saying that its ganna be out for a while, while they upgrade or whatever. so i check my email on my phone. i have all these messages from myspace which is weird because everyone usually calls me. but everyone i knew was out of town so i just waited. i eventually got a call from one of the girls at the party that i new fairly well. def. not a close friend but she was nice. she tells me that the girl that liked my guy friend was on my myspace sending these sexual messages to a lot of guys and one was the guy from the play that i ahve a huge crush on. so i ask her to check my myspace and to please send him a message saying how sorry i am and to explain. so she does and then later i check my emails on my phone again and he wrote back, well she had been on my account and had already written him back this whole thing that was argumentative when he had every right to be mad about what happened. anyways basically he said he didnt want to talk to me because he couldnt trust me. she wrote all the messages to him saying it was me and not my friend. then to make things even worse a couple of days later (yes my internet was out fri morning until monday night!!!) my friend liza (a real friend)calls me and i'm cryin because of not just the myspace thing, but because i called my guy friend and told him what his friends had done and we got into a huge fight because he didnt believe me. so i told her what happened and she gets on my myspace and send him a message telling him he needs to get over it because i didnt do it and i wouldnt ever do anything like that, which is true but the timing was really bad and i think she was drunk.
what do i do to fix things? give him time? beg? i mean i feel really bad and want to fix this. sorry this was so long. any advice would help.
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If its "meant to be", it will be.
