LT thanks that makes sense now. I also appreciate your taking the time to share. Also it is nice to be back to the current starting point.
Great idea that adult care facility has.. I belong to the Y not so much odd people as they carve out space for older or "shy" people as a way to increase confidence and attendance. So I have been pretty lucky. I did belong to a gym that catered to the pretty and fit which had the "posers" and "grunters"



