I have to confess that I have dieted my way up from 220 just 4 years ago to a high of 284, last fall I lost down to 250 then this year went up to 276 before I caught myself again. I had sworn when my now 4yo was born that if I wasn't at a healthy weight by the time he was 2 I would go for lapband. Obviously that hasn't happened (because I believe I can do this without the surgery). I discovered the other day that I think I self sabotage for many reasons, a leading one being afraid that I will be covered in horrible loose skin... and there is no way on earth we could ever afford for me to have it removed. I started to panic over it the other day, and realized that this thought gets the best of me often. I have to find the courage to put that in the back of my mind!
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