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Originally Posted by ledom
So sorry that you were embarrassed. I have to say though that my Dr. told me nicely and I STILL felt humiliated. It is the elephant in the room (I didn't say I'M the elephant in the room ;-)), I don't want anyone to notice it and I sure don't want anyone to mention it. I am in my 50s and no one teases me anymore about a lifelong issue with weight but I still am sensitive when anyone, including my Dr. mentions it. In my opinion there is no nice way to talk about it. So try not to be humiliated, try to take it for what it is, a fact of life.
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Thanks ledom. You said this better than me. Since I'm obese and a health care provider, I TOTALLY know that it is the elephant in the room. I know it and the obese woman knows it.
And (not to toot my own horn) I'm WAY more tactful than Nik's doctor. But I DO try to bring it up
when the time is right.
Bottom line-- there are things we hate talking about
: fat, sexually transmitted diseases... there are things we are getting better about talking about, like depression and psych issues, and there are things we feel comfortable talking about, like cancer. The easy health issues to discuss are the ones where the patient feels like it's nobody's fault. It just happened, like cancer. The hard ones are the "self-inflicted" ones, like obesity. But obesity is caused by a complex combination of environment, genes, and behavior and it isn't anyone's "fault" either. So we need to learn to talk about it.