'Morning, dear chicks!!
Thanks to you all for being kind about my unseemly exploits... more on this later, but first:
brandijune44, sounds like you are well on your way to success!! Your food and exercise plans look great -- keep going!!
soulnik, good onya for sticking with your plan (and not killing anyone!) through a stressful day. That's when you find out what you're made of, isn't it?
mj5, how fantastic to see you posting!! Hope we get to see more of you soon. Meantime, be proud of yourself for getting to that gym and working out!! And yes, I will do my part to give you vicarious thrills and chills (well, until someone here tells me to STFU...)!!!
Beverlyjoy, you're doing soooooo well!!! I admire the way you identify your weak areas and work on them with such deliberation. That's a hard thing to do, and I am learning from you!! Thanks for continuing to be an inspiration!!
dgramie, speaking of inspirations -- YOU are amazing!!!!! I am in awe, and we are lucky to have you with us as a guiding light down a difficult path!! A very special day, indeed. You are going to make it!!!
Slashnl, have missed your posts!! Glad to see you back with us, and sorry about the lukewarm showers... sounds challenging for sure!! Pouring sweat is exactly what we all need to be doing more of, and I will think of that today when I get my lazy rear out the door for a good hike around this place!!
rakel, good luck with the move, and try not to let the inevitable stress of that derail your great efforts!! You're doing so, so well, despite challenges. Keep it up, ladybug!!
Ok, the Men Thing (bolded for those who would prefer to skip).... yes, very hot, very juicy, very, very fun!! Both lovely, sexy, successful qualifiers -- meaning no obvious defects such as tobacco use or alcoholism... both financially independent, fit, funny, tall and have full heads of hair... oh, and did I mention there is a third on the horizon?? Nevermind; I have my hands full with the first two. The third will simply have to wait in the wings for an available, umm, opening.
Last night I was juggling call-waiting with everyone phoning in. My life feels like a sitcom. Was in the middle of a deep discussion with the Old Flame when my call waiting beeped... ordinarily I would ignore it, but I did actually wish to check in with Handyman, so I excused myself to catch the call... told Handyman I'd call him back shortly and got back to Old Flame.
Old Flame: "Was that Handyman?"
Me: "Well, yes, it was."
Old Flame: "That's it -- I'm bringing my .38 when I come to visit!!" (jokingly, formerly a peace officer and range master, so it was a light-hearted comment.. I think...)
Then proceeds to keep me on the phone until 10 p.m., when it's too late to call Handyman back....
At 10:15 p.m., the phone rings... it's Handyman....
Handyman: "Were you busy working late?"
Me: "No, I was talking to Old Flame. He will be here for a visit on the 8th."
Handyman: "Ok, I know you need to sort all this out. Just remember, I already LIVE here!!!"
My call-waiting beeps again. I can't think who is calling so late, so I ask to take it. It's Door Number Three!!
Me: "How... ummm... interesting to hear from you so late!!"
Door Number Three: "Well, I've been thinking about you a lot and I'd love to come for a visit sometime soon."
Me: "Well, we need to chat about that, but now is not a good time. Let's talk over the weekend, ok?"
Door Number Three: "Ok, I'll call you then."
Back to Handyman:
Handyman: "Who was calling so late?"
Me: "Oh, just an old friend."
Handyman: "Hoo, boy."
And so on.
But here's the thing... there are lessons here for us all.
Lesson One: Being heavy is NOT an impediment to having an active dating life!!!
Lesson Two: Being OLD is NOT an impediment to having an active dating life!!!
Lesson Three: It is possible to continue a weight loss journey while cooking sumptuous, fabulous meals for the may-uhhn(s) in your life. (This has been a HUGE lesson for me!!)
Lesson Four: There is more to life than losing weight!!
Always moving foward, chicks!!!
And thanks for putting up with me!!!
Rae