"of course, i shared my deep unhappiness with my husband and made him pretty miserable too. bless his heart. he does love me cause i was pretty unlovable for past couple of days and he didnt get angry. confused? hoo boy."
Oh I hear ya on that one, I DEFINITELY notice that I become snippy and plain 'ol mean when I'm hungry or feel pissed because I *can't* eat. After one long tirade, my normally quiet, passive husband SCREAMED at me, "Dammit, Jen, I'd rather have you fat and happy than dieting and MISERABLE!"
I knew at that moment that the next time I was going to try losing weight I had to do it in a way that I could keep up FOREVER. That means finding a way to include my favorite foods so I wasn't stomping around pouting about what I "couldn't" have... and it's worked so far...
I, like, you, just came off a LONG hiatus where I just shoved EVERYTHING in my face... and I gained back 17 pounds that I had worked so hard to lose. 1 month to gain back what it took weeks and weeks to lose!!!
But... like you... I brushed myself off. I realized that I'm not alone and I can ALWAYS put a stop to it. Which I did. Which you did. And we'll get better. And we'll fall off again in the future. But next time that happens, you let that day go by, chalk up your losses, and pick yourself up FASTER. That's the key.
Good luck. We're all here for each other.