Hi Suzie,
Sorry about the delayed response....i haven't had a chance to check this in a couple days.

Thank you for the very sweet compliment.....as far a hair products go....I generally like to switch things up every couple of months, to give my hair a break....plus, I am a product whore
I'll give you some of my favorite combos and hopefully you can find something that works with your hair:
1. Aveda's "Be Curly" Lotion is a good product, but can be a little pricey and sometimes hard to find.
2. The "Curl's Rock" Line by Tigi....I think it is a subdivision of Bedhead known as Catwalk, is a little cheaper and has lots of different options for curls. It smells pretty great too!
3. The line I am currently using is Redken's "Fresh Curls"...I love the shampoo and conditioner combo. They have a lotion option for after you get out the shower and a good mousse. It smells pretty good as well.
I have to say that my number one tip for curly hair is...NEVER EVER Brush your hair. I don't even own one! I usually finger through my hair when it has conditioner in it in the shower, but once I get out ....I only squeeze the water out and use my fingers to run through the product through. When you brush or comb through curls, it tends to break them up and make em super frizzy.
Hope I was able to help

Again, thanks for the compliment. As fellow curly head, I know how hard it can be to deal with them. Good Luck