[WinterStarzz]

I'm going to have to go with the majority on this. He's lying, he's going behind your back, he's keeping in touch with this girl for no business reason. I wouldn't trust him even if he tells you he promises he won't talk to her again, yada yada yada. I am not a giver of second chances when it comes to dishonesty and cheating. But that's just me. I kind of went through something similar with my ex. If you would ever like a shoulder or ear, just let me know if there is anything I can do.

[Steelslady]

If I were in your shoes, I'd kick his tail to the curb and never look back. Sorry, but he betrayed you knowing how you felt about him keeping in touch with this woman. He could have blocked her email address and be done with her for good, but no, he not only emails her, but also wants to get together for lunch?

Plenty of other fish in the sea. If you think it's hurtful now, imagine what it would be like in a couple of years or so if you decide to have children with him? Then what?

[Trazey34]

I'm in my 40's and fully & completely admit to being a hateful jealous SHREW on occasion LOL, and this would send me to the freakin MOON!!!!

Not only did you SAY you weren't crazy about him spending time/energy on this person, he did it anyway, and behind your back. If he invited you along to meet her obviously we wouldn't be having this conversation. it is NOT COOL