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  • For my 3YO daughter, "big" is the best compliment that she can give or receive. She's the youngest, so that explains why. She corrects me if I call her a "little girl," and she constantly tells me that I'm a "big, big mommy" or - the ultimate compliment in her world - that I'm "way huge."
  • Quote: And then it gets worse...

    Yesterday at school a boy was making fun of me for being fat out on the playground. "Your mom is so fat, she can't fit in her car". I was alone when Jacob told me the story. He was so kind about it, even saying I wasn't fat. I told him that I was, but I was also working on it, that's why I was counting calories and exercising. He handled the situation well.

    I am so upset about this, I just want to cry. This isn't what I wanted for my life.
    I"m so sorry, sometimes kids can be so cruel. I can remember about 8 yrs ago babysitting for some brats, ( and I"m not just saying that, they were brats, lol ) and we were making popcorn and he said something like really simple like "you're fat!" and I just replied with an angry
    ( not really angry, but stern "AND"?? and he just looked at me, and I said it's not poliete to call ppl fat, don't ever say that again to anyone you think is fat. He just said ok, i'm sorry.
  • Thanks for all your support, you guys are the best.

    It looks like it was an isolated event (nothing has happened since) so for that I am grateful.