here's a secret: you are you, and she is whoever she is. what works for you may not work for her. and vice versa. don't listen to her. LISTEN TO YOUR OWN BODY!!!! this is a JOURNEY not a race. so if you lose less weight than she does this week, you have no idea what next week will bring.
obviously, you both have a lot of issues in your personal lives - just like the rest of the world. and those infertility treatments play havoc with your hormones, which affects weight loss and weight gain.
so please. don't be too hard on yourself. and do your best to support your friend, but not to buy into whatever it is she's doing. keep on the path that feels right for YOU...
and keep us posted!!!
Start your day with a smile, and get it over with.
Keeping it off is a hundred decisions a day that help you maintain what you achieved. And that's the hard part. - L Sanders
start: 506 [Sept 2001]
weight at gastric bypass [Jan 29, 2002]: 409
current weight: 225
weight for plastic surgery: 200
final goal: 180
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