I was thinking about lurking there before i saw this post and wanted to read it first! lol.
i had n ex who had gained at least twenty pounds while we were dating, and he wanted to lose weight and every time he would complain about his weight his friends or brothers would always tell him he either sounded like a girl or would tell him he did gain a lot of weight.
and then when i got just dance for the wii he liked playing it but his one brother gave him such a hard time about it he wouldn't play it while his brother was there.
I was like, seriously? i wanted to beat his brother up then, lol. but i think it is a lot harder on them then it is us!
<---hugs for all the guys here!