Striving for that "ideal" body, might not be the best choice.
I'd love to look like Cindy Crawford. But dang, I'm to short!
At my current weight, that I have maintained for several years, I still have a bit of a pot belly, due to having huge twin babies, and being genetically destined to have a pot belly, and I have big boobs.
I've had the big boobs forever. I really hoped that at this weight they would shrink. No such luck. I'm top heavy.
However, all of that is ok! I have fantastic strong arms, I have great muscular thighs, I also have not butt! Flat as a pancake.
I've come to terms with all of it. I will always be top heavy, but that's ok. I will always have big ole "man" arms, I love them!
I will never have *booty*. That's ok!
I chose to love the body I have, and not fret over some unrealistic, photoshop dream of the "ideal" body!