The guy was nothing but a mooch. So is his brother. You might run into more users as time goes by. Once in awhile I bump into one. They try to be charming to get what they want from women. They hang around bars and nightclubs waiting for some lonely unsuspecting woman to show up. They go from one woman to another their entire life. They are users.
They start right off with some hardluck story or another.
Usually about a lack of transportation or no job. Sometimes they like to drink or gamble too much. Or they talk about all of the women they "have been with."
(Women they have mooched off of in the past.) They will always try to work on your sympathy.
I just walk away from them. I don't fall for their game. I won't let a mooch or loser into my life.
If a guy has no job or car, forget him.
A friend of mine just found out she has been dating a cheapskate. The relationship was doing great the first 2 months, but recently he has been picking at half the food on her plate at restaurants, and drinking half her beverage. He doesn't order for himself...says he is not hungry.
He mooched a free vacation for himself, free food and lodging, when she went to visit relatives out of state last week.
He refused to pay for anything "because she had to drive there anyway."
She is dumping him this week. And he owns his own home, drives a nice car, and has a good job.
Change your thoughts and you change your world.
Norman Vincent Peale (1898 - 1993)
