This is the second time it has happened to me in the last year. I mean really what is up with making a 2nd date with someone, talk to them 2 hrs before, and then just not show up? What is this? This hasn't only happened to me. Several of my single friends have had this happen to them also.
Either a lot of men have been abducted in the Los Angeles area or this city is just full of children playing at being men. It is so frustrating. It isn't like I am going out with 20 somethings or early 30's. Most of the men I date are in their 40's, established careers and what not. So why the games? I would respect a man more if he just came out and said that he wasn't interested over the game playing. It is petty and childish to do that.
It has been suggested that it may be what I have in my profile... so here is it is for your reading it enjoyment..
Well I am looking for "that" nice guy to date/love/spend the rest of my life with.He is funny and smart. I lean towards tall guys with some meat on their bones! I like men with tattoos or without. I am looking for someone that I like and respect.
Someone I can have fun with. Enjoy music, travel and friends.
I read. I listen to music. I have fun. I have friends. I have a job. I am a curvy girl. My hair has an identity crisis and doesn't know what color it wants to be. I aspire to make it up Runyon Canyon without gasping for air. I have saved a few lives. I have jumped out of an airplane with the Flying Elvi. I love live music/concerts. I love to travel.I have tattoos. I like learning new things. I care. I am loyal. I can be sarcastic. I am generous.
So in a nutshell, I am up for the adventure! Are you?
Sometimes I am lonely hike
sometimes I am a conversation
some days I am gentle saint
some days I'm bound for ****
some days I'm a gourmet chef
some days I'm a taco bell
sometimes I just give and give
sometimes I just need and need
some nights I'm a ticking clock
some nights I'm a timeless vision
So what is this giving out the vibe that I am just looking to be messed with? Give me feedback folks because I am confused by this.
I think I am a pretty good person. I have been a good girlfriend in the past.. I don't try and hurt anyone intentionally and I am pretty upfront about what I want out of a relationship. I am tired of being lied to or cheated on. What should I be doing differently?
Sorry I am just really venting, because this is getting old!