Hi thanks for the kind welcome, I don't really have any idea where to start, so I'm just going to explore the site and see what I find. I think my biggest hurdle will be portion control, because in the past when I fall off the wagon, I fall hard (like eating an entire medium pizza in one sitting hard).
Thanks for the advice, and this time I am definitely going to start small I think I have failed in the past because I tried to be all drastic with the changes.