Hey Barb!
Have you found our "20-somethings" forum yet? It's for those in the 20's age range, and might be a good spot to settle in.
We also have forums by eating plan, and a lot of other smaller groups around, so look around and settle in!
I'm sorry you're frustrated with your process right now...luckily, 3FC is (in my humble opinion) one of the best, most supportive places out there, and a place where you can get advice, answers, and camraderie during the process. I credit it as a MAJOR factor in my getting to maintenance.
I'm so glad you found us, and I can't wait to get to know you better!