I just joined too and also have alot to lose. Im Alison. In my 20's and just moved to NC about 4 months ago. I am very glad to have found this and hoping its just what i need to help to stay motivated! GOOD LUCK!
Welcome Belleza!! I am new myself and I agree, in a world where you basically have to be a size 2 to fit in, it's comforting to be able to meet and chat with people who know what you are going through!!