Samantha
Glad you found us. It is never to soon to start becoming a more healthy person. This is a great place to find some of the answers you might be looking for. You will not find a group of more supportive people anywhere else.
Most of us have found out a few things. Diets don't work. How we eat and how we exercise has a total effect on how we feel about our selfs. We also understand this is a food style change that will last us a lifetime. We look at,think about and eat differently than we did in the past.
So many people here doing so many things to take the weight off and keep it off. You won't find a more supportive group of people than right here. We understand this journey to a thinner more healthy person isn't always easy.
Some like set plans like Jenny Craig or Weight Watchers, some like to count calories and others like to go the low carb way. Myself I use a salad plate instead of a lunch plate, a lunch plate instead of a dinner plate. When my family is having one of my favorites for dinner. I eat what they eat but pay attention to portion sizes. If they are having something I am not crazy about, I eat lean cuisines.
Look around the site and read posts from people. You will find all kinds of ideas. Then decide what is right for you. Just remember do things you can live with, this is not something we are doing just until we lose weight. We know these choices will last us a lifetime.
Post anywhere you feel you have something to add. Don't be afraid to ask for advice or to give some. Everyone is interested in how you are doing.
Remember, when you think you are doing this all alone. When there isn't a person in sight to give you the encouragement you need. God is right there beside you. Usually yelling, put down that candy bar.