So school started on Wednesday last week, already I have gotten a call from my 16yr old daughter's teacher. She had all summer to complete a project & the teacher extended the deadline 5 extra days making it due today. She shows up empty handed.
It's not only annoying, but embarrassing to have a teacher call me 3 days in about something she had 3 months to do!
I immediately tell her dad (who she spent the entire summer with) and he's such an enabler he says "well maybe she forgot I did pick her up on the last day of school." Even if she forgot she just had an extra 5 days to get it done.
Her attitude totally sucks too. Lots of "whatever's" To the point where I threatened a little corporal punishment if that didn't end. She claims she did it but left it home (to me that's even worse than just not doing it.) I asked her did she think that a boss would give her 5 extra days plus 1 more to get her work done or did she think she would just get fired.
I wish she could see the ramifications that this will have on her future. She just doesn't get it. It's like she takes pride in being a slacker.
At this point I don't even know what to do to try and help her realize how she needs to change.