I used to go to school with. He was an ok guy, not really my type (not for physical reasons, mostly we didn't have much in common, and to be totally honest I'm just not looking for a relationship these days). He asked me out while we were still in school, and I declined, and told him I just wasn't interested in dating.
He immidiately started in with, "it's because i'm fat, isn't it? what is it with girls? no girls like fat guys, they're all shallow *****es,etc etc" which is sad, because I know how those thoughts feel, but he's STILL carrying on about it 2 years later. And it's gotten to the point where it's doesn't really make me feel bad for him anymore- it's just annoying and childish. (plus I was at my heaviest weight at that time! So idk wtf he was even going on about.)
I've talked with him several times and told him I'm just not looking for a relationship. I want to focus on other things for now. He insists that all the girls hate him because he's heavy. I suggested that maybe they dislike him because of the way he carries on when something doesn't go his way. So now not only am I the enemy, I'm a fat hater, apparently, and "very shallow."
I just don't know what else to say to this guy, so I've just stopped talking to him. It's not like I'm peeking over the fence at Johnny Six Pack three seconds after telling him I'm not interested- I don't know what to do. I don't think he's the stalking type, but he is genuinely creepy which is one of the things that turned me off about him.
But if he approaches me again (it's happened both IRL and online), what the **** do I say? I don't want to keep going around in circles with this guy, and potentially put myself in danger. (I DOUBT he's dangerous, but you never really know. He's a lot bigger than me, height and weight wise, and could really hurt me if he wanted to)