Hello all,
I was wondering if anyone out there has felt like cutting off their therapy?
Here's my situation:
I have been in therapy for bulimia/alcohol abuse/depression since October 2005. My first therapist I felt I could be really open with, but she moved to Florida in December, transferring me to a coworker.
Drug history: I was on Prozac for 6 weeks but stopped it when I felt it wasn't helping... then I decided to go on Antabuse, and was on that for 2 weeks, and "dry" for a month off alcohol, since started drinking again in mid-March, after waiting for the 2 weeks of Antabuse to clear my system.
Anyway... after getting transferred... Her coworker is similiarly qualified (Master's in Social Work) and was once a bulimic herself. The first therapist had not had an eating disorder.
I'm not sure if having had an eating disorder makes a therapist "more qualified" but it makes me feel a bit better to know my second therapist knows the struggles it takes to overcome it.
I am coming up on my 8th hour with Therapist #2 next week. She is radically different than the first woman - more "Spock-like" - very logical, analytical, rather chilly, doesn't smile much, but she gives me what I think are good exercises to do and things to think about.
My problem is that I recently went off a drug I asked to take (Antabuse to prevent me drinking) and I have not had the courage/openness to tell her I went off it and have been off it for 5 weeks.
I actually lied and said I was still taking it during my last appt. with her... which now I'm feeling horribly guilty about 1) lying about quitting the drug and 2) drinking.
I just feel dread about seeing her again and either being 100% honest or continuing a farce.
The Antabuse worries the crap out of me: I am scared to take it because it can cause liver damage/failure even in those who are only moderate drinkers like myself. I average 1 drink a day, some days none, but other days, 3-4 drinks is no problem, which worries me a lot since I come from an alcoholic family. I justified the risk because I wanted to see what being forced to stay sober was like - now I know, I liked it, but I fell off the wagon, as the saying goes, and I feel too cowardly to take that pill again!
What really got me panicked were my liver test results - higher enzyme levels ON THE DRUG than when I was DRINKING. Urgh! And heck, the 2nd test was when I'd been off the drug for 2 weeks!
But at the same time, I am worried I am using this all as an excuse to ditch therapy and become best friends with the bottle again...
But I... argh! just don't feel friendly with her... I feel like she is judging me, is not a warm person...
Should I just suck it up, be honest, and let the chips fall where they may?
Or start over again, with my 4 months in with her, and try someone new? (Am I just being chicken?)
What's your experiences been like with the head shrinkers? Or... what do you think I should do?
HELP!