From what I've heard (and again, let me just say that it's all 2nd hand from the 2 friends of mine who did Jenny Craig,) they don't do that good of a job with counseling, especially since you pay so much.
Personally, I found that confronting the issues that led to the weight loss was like a damn opening up. Once I stop eating for emotional reasons I didn't eat so much. I opened up a lot, started telling people when they bothered me, stopped living as if it was someone's elses job to make me happy/content. I am responsible for myself. And if DH says something that steams me, he will know about it immediately because I no longer will stuff my anger or sadness down with food. Oh, dear, I think I got back on my soapbox.
I occasionally go off on a tangent
A few books I found very helpful, I didn't buy any of them, I checked them all out from the library:
Emotional eating : a practical guide to taking control and
Emotional Eating : What You Need to Know Before Starting Your Next Diet both by Edward Abramson
It's Not about Food: Change Your Mind; Change Your Life; End Your Obsession with Food and Weight by Carol Emery Normandi
Dr. Phil's Ultimate Weightloss Solution
Flip the Switch : Lose the Excuses, Lose the Weight, and Get the Body
You've Always Wanted by Jim Karas
Books by Geneen Roth are great:
When Food is Love
Breaking Free from Emotional Eating
Why Weight?: A Guide to Ending Compulsive Eating (workbook style)
When You Eat at the Refrigerator, Pull Up a Chair
I think for me the first thing I had to do was decide that I liked myself at the weight I was. That losing weight wasn't going to fix anything until I made some changes, it doesn't make you any less lonely or people love you more. Oops, I find myself jumping back on my soapbox again. Better stop, this might not even be helping you at all....
Sarah