I'm not currently involved, but if I was I'd like to strike a healthy balance between the 2. One thing I cannot stand are these couples who think they must do absolutely EVERYTHING together. We need our girl time just as much as they need their boy time...I want to be able to go get manis and pedis w/ the girls or go see Sex and the City or whatever and he should be able to go work on cars or whatever. You won't wither and die if you're not attached at the hip 24/7. LOL
What is the top thing on your "bucket list"...the #1 thing you MUST do before you die???