I have to go with Morrigan -- isn't is just amazing when we have that support! My dh keeps telling me how much he loves me and he knows I am doing this for myself and no one else. He reminds me all the time he loves me for me, no matter what! He is also a good cheerleader when I am feeling down & want stuff on my no-no list.
It is too bad everyone who says they love you (family, MIL) isn't as supporting - but that is their problem (so I keep telling myself to make myself feel better)
If that doesn't count, I choose MYSELF for staying with it and loosing what I have so far