butterflygirl,
I have done weight watchers a few times and although i have lost, it has never been in a sustainable kind of way.
I had about given up trying to lose weight when my brother encouraged me to try Ideal Protein. It is a form of ketogenic nutrition. It's been amazing to experience it at work.
Ideal Protein is one of many kinds of ketogenic diets -- low carb, moderate protein. It addresses glycemic index issues, insulin resistance and metabolic x syndrome. New science emerging is showing that all calories are not the same. My experience with going low carb is showing this to be true.
I know only too well the frustration of trying to lose and it not working and not feeling supported.
While Ideal Protein is a specific programme, you can learn more about ketogenic nutrition through some of these sources:
The Art and Science of Low Carbohydrate Living
Why We Get Fat
Jimmy Moore Livin' La Vida Low Carb.
Weight Loss According to Dr. Chanh Tran Tien
That last link is the website of the physician who founded Ideal Protein. It (and all the others) are based on science that began emergency around the turn of the twentieth century. There is resistance to the ideas because we are still stuck in the calorie counting mindset. If it is carbs that are causing the problem, it is carbs and calories that are more at stake.
Besides there being an Ideal Protein forum in 3 fat Chicks, there is also a Low Carb forum. Ketogenic nutrition has in the last few years taken Sweden by storm!
I personally really like Ideal Protein because of its structure and support.
On the off chance that this might be something that could work for you, I am sharing it here.
Weight loss is a very personal journey. What works well for one person might not work well for someone else. But it might be worth exploring.
Annik