Eloquently put as always, Swan. I love your resolutions.
I have three very plebian resolutions, and only two are weight-related:
1. Keep exercising 4-5 times per week; would like to get to the point where I'll be able to jump while exercising. It's hard to get my heart rate up now with low-impact exercises. Part of this will also involve incorporating strength training exercises with my aerobic workouts.
2. Keep writing everything down -- the good, the bad, and the ugly.
As for the things I'd like to see happen -- I'd like to get to 174 by summer solstice. That would be 100 pounds down for me, and I'd also just be overweight instead of obese.

I'd like to get completely out of plus sizes. (I'm on the cusp of this already -- in an 18W.) I'd like to go biking with my husband, maybe even on a bike trip. I'd like to have much stronger stomach and back muscles, so my back will be better protected and so I'll have better posture.
Thanks for the thoughtful discussion, Swan.
Onward and downward,
Lauren
274/200/174 by summer solstice