Hi LWL,

Hi Pat! Welcome back! Stess is hitting me again this morning. Hit a trashcan with my cars mirror, so another thing to get fixed. I'm definitely not myself. i guess part of it is TOM. I am perimenopausal, so that is more like TO3M, but still I'm dropping everything, feeling stressed out at minor things. AND it is may holiday, so no routine this week to keep me up.

On the plus side: I seem to manage to get my pool in operation for the season. XH has offered repeatedly to come for 1 day and help us out, but i do not trust his offers. He expressed a big disbelieve when DD told him mommy and she had already done the pool. But we did. Final acid test is this afternoon, when, after filling her up, I'll turn on the pump. Funny thing is, XH always acted like putting the pool into operation was like starting a nuclear reactor orr something. it took hours of hard important work. But now that I have done it together with DD (11 year, 1m38 and all off 25.8 kgs, so really a good help with the heavvy work) I actually do not see where that came from. So far, we did it, it went well, I did not have to tire myself and everything still seems to be under control???

Have a great day all,
rabbit