That article was interesting. I would not have chosen to describe myself as fat. I would have chosen words like "smart, creative, mother, down to earth" etc... maybe I'm just vain.
Which leads me to the original poster's thread. Yep, I do exactly what you do. I see myself as better than I am. It's called Body Dismorphia. That is a condition where you see yourself either better or worse than you are. When I was young I saw myself as worse. I was 128 lbs, wore a size six and could swear I was fat. Fast forward to age 31. I was 230 lbs, size 20, and thought I looked "pretty good" considering how much I weighed. I could never understand why nobody could get a good picture of me. But home video put it all in perspective. I would always cry when I saw it. How many chins should one woman have!? And yet, I'd go a couple weeks, forget and convince myself I looked okay. LOL Then I hit bottom. And my husband hit bottom (he was overweight as well) and together we are on a course. But I did yo-yo and I did it because I got to 180 lbs and thought I looked great and stopped living a healthy lifestyle. DUMB!
Mirrors, even full length, are terrible guidelines to how we look. We can hold our tummies in, stand straight, turn at an angle and thrust our chin forward. Wow, we don't look so bad. We don't see the bra strap cutting into our fat rolls, or the pants riding down our butt (pockets really shouldn't ride on the thigh you know?) We don't see our chins from the side profile while we laugh. We don't see all the things that everybody else sees. And so we convince ourselves that we're not really fat. Wow, how can we look so good when we weight so much! We must hold our weight very well. We're big boned. We're lucky.
But in reality, you are right--we're overweight. We need to change our lifestyles so we can set healthy examples for those who look up to us. And we can.
And I think it's great you're staying motivated and trying to stay grounded! Keep up the great work and stay on track. Have somebody take some video of you and watch it. That's ALWAYS a motivator for me! LOL
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