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Originally Posted by JoyfulVegGirl
Dianne, thank you. I don't mind sharing at all, and I hope it helps someone stay on track.
CBETA, so much can happen in a year. You might be alone next year, or you might be with people you care about. Your ex's wife might not arrive, your friend might not have their BF, you might have new friends or a special someone... there's just no telling what will happen. You sound lonely now. Are you happy with the way your life is? You say that no one cares and that you're scared... is your fear of this getting in the way of you seeing what you want? What's important to you? Where would you like to be next year? Regardless of what other people do you're the one who really has power of your life and where it'll be in a year.
I hope everyone got through the weekend ok! I had a nice, relaxing holiday. I got in my veggies and water and exercise. It felt great  |
Jen, yes I am bummed out but you are right who knows. I never thought of searching for a forum like this, and then one time it hit me and I am very glad i am here. I think I know what I want, but I don't always take the time to connect the dots, and reask the question "will that help me accomplish my goal, or will it be a set back". Perhaps often in the spur of the moment I dont' want to ask that question, but I should. I used to believe that how lame, noone asks themselves. and then oh wow I found out just the opposite. They do but not so obviously like I have to. Just like I don't need to think twice if offered pot, my answer is no, same for them, they don't take another slice of something as they feel they are full rather than think of the great taste.....sorry I left off the topic.
I know, I am an optimist and next everythign will be better, we learn from our misstakes, and I am working on it.
Thank you for your kind words and support. I do have a lot of work to do on myself....
