Nothing helps get over a devestating breakup better than investing your time and energy into YOURSELF! Especially when you are doing something focused and consistent like a fitness routine. Join a gym and spend your evenings there.

I went through a rough breakup a year and a half ago and for the first six months I just ate at night whenever I was hurting. 15 pounds later I had a bit of work to do on myself! Getting to the gym and replacing those lonely evening hours with energizing workouts that made me a better me helped me feel so much better about myself.

Hang in there...you are on the right track.

Sincerely,
Meredith

Thank you Marbleflys and Meredith P1, I am going to make my gaol this time, I know it will be long and hard work but Im worth it, I know know thanks to my X that I am worth being healthy and thin and happy. Im reading a book I reccomend highley its called "Good In Bed" It's about a heavy wowan and her X it gave me things to think about. Like I always feel Im not good enough like noone nomatter what they say cannot love me how could they Im a mess, Im fat and ulgy and worthless.... But That will change Im deturmended!!! Starting tonight with the gym and eating healthy.. I do owe all this to the strong support I get from here Thanks so very much.

I really believe that there is truth in that old saying "pulling yourself up by your own boot-straps"......and if you run into the piece of trash who tried to scam you......"living well and looking good is the best revenge".....He'll eat his heart out!

Oooh viana I love that book! It's really nice to read a book with a fat heroine!

I also read some other book (can't remember the title) where this lady was really large, met this guy online who asked for a picture, so her mate photoshops a photo for her to send of her looking well thin! The guy she knows online wants to meets her and she's panicked so she loses loads of weight and goes to meet this guy! Only to realise that this guy secretly obsesses about really huge girls but wants her for a trophy girlfriend! It's really interesting and amusing, if only I could remember the title!

Good Morning Group~

Marbleflys~ Thank you, you are so right, when Im thin and healthy and looking hot he will just die to be with me..lol and Payback is a B*%#@!!!

2Frustrated~ The book that your talking about is called "Jemma J" Its a very funny and true book I totaly saw myself in that book.

Well I did it yesterday I joined our local gym, and may I add some very Hot guys workout there Im really going to do it this time I know I can it will take a long time to see what I really want but I wont give up!!!!!