I agree with Choomai and I would like to build on that. At the end of the day, what's really important is how we feel about ourselves. It's not about other people's standards of what looks good. It's about what you think is truly right for you. If you feel that you are in your best shape and weight, no one should say otherwise. We want to lose weight and reduce those inches, true. But at the end of it all, what really matters is are we happy with the way we are? No other person can dictate that - no matter how fit-looking they may be. All the best to you! Stay strong!